As my profile states I am a switch.  As a man and in my "normal" life I am very much in control and enjoy being Dominant in terms of the bedroom.  As britney though, I tend to be rather submissive, though I have not yet explored to what depths. 

I definitely would say that BDSM is something that I enjoy, however its not something that I would ever want to take over my life.  I still very much want a "normal" vanilla life, I just want things to be able to get incredibly kinky sexually.

As far as on here goes, I am pretty much only looking for friendship, as my current situation really prevents anything else.   I've had a lot of bad experiences on here, but I've also met some amazing people that I have been lucky enough to get to know and become friends with, so I guess that is why I've stuck around here as long as I have :  )