A bit about me: Educated (Masters Degree) busy professional. I split my time between Texas and Florida, but due to business demands, am rarely in either location for more than 4 or 5 consecutive days.

 

I'm not some sort of self proclaimed MasterSuperNinjaTurtleWolfDom from Planet Girlspanker. I don't like to wrap my sexual activities in pseudo religious pageantry.  
  I'm not a member of the House of Phoenix, House of Alternative Spiritual Reality, House of RenFair Role Play Refugee, or any other "House"  Well, occasionally, the House of Pancakes.

 

What I'm looking for: A thoughtful, intelligent woman who has her own life, her own identity, her own mind. Someone who understands the difference between play and reality, and who wants to indulge or explore, without sleeping in a cage or eating out of a dog bowl.  

I'm not looking for a mindless piece of meat, nor a doormat with some emotional void. Afterall, what fun is it cuffing a doormat to the bed? I'm not looking for some sort of spiritual enlightenment with a BDSM theme, and I'm not offering any. It would also be nice to find someone who knows the difference between your and you're or there and their.

 

If your profile contains the term "I have so much love to give" or "You complete me" we're probably not a good match.  Not that I'm only looking for something casual. Given the level of trust required for certain non vanilla activities, I'd like for her to be a friend first and a play partner second, but that's not written in stone. And if the friendship outlasts the play, that's fine. If the friendship develops into something more, that's fine too. If someone special comes along, that would be wonderful, but on this site? Not holding my breath.