Suffering is the sole origin of consciousness..DostoevskiAs a teacher I must lead an assertive sometimes overbearing life during the day. But after dark a primal need to submit to a womans control takes over. It can be as simple and innocent as telling me when to sit or having me make you your drink, or as extreme as using me as your ashtray or footstool. Humiliation and degradation are the signposts of submission. I seek someone who enjoys leading a man down that dark road. I am not a masochist but it seems that when you spend any time with a dominant woman some pain is involved. I live in SLO area I would love to make some new friends in the lifestyle or the profession.
