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EverVig
Hetero Male, 45, North, New Jersey 
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EverVig
The thought that with this limited space one can succinctly describe themselves to complete strangers makes about as much sense as judging someone from an initial opening greeting.

And yet submissives bitch about the lack of good Dominants. (Not Dominates,learn to spell)

People are complex, layered individuals, it would be easier to explain Quantum Physic than the nuances of mine or anyone elses, own nature But what the Hell, here goes

Short version

I am at times a cold-blooded, heartless, sensualist, with bursts of wit and insightful observations. Great opening, ummm?

Longer version for those who like to read

Im an intelligent, college educated, SINGLE, professional, well versed male with over 8 years of experience with submissive and masochistic women.

I enjoy women who are comfortable with their sexuality and who like to have their limits pushed. I like to take control of a woman, her mind and her body, and use her for our mutual pleasure.

I am very old fashioned and have most of the values that are long gone these days. I will get the door for you, pull out a chair for you, bring you flowers, give you a passionate kiss before you go to bed at night.

I am very positive and easy going, get along with almost everyone, and love to laugh, even at myself.

I have learned volumes from my recent relationships. High on the list of lessons is how important some of my wants and needs are to me. I cannot compromise on them. I cannot negotiate my needs into something less.

Loving someone is an absolute action. It is absolute caring, absolute acceptance, absolute adoration. Anything less than that feral passion is not going to satisfy me.

What I am looking for in a partner

I want to be with someone who not only has feral passion, but openly embraces and she shows it every chance she gets.

Be the primal woman that is inside you and you have me totally!

I am willing to patiently wait for the one that I am truly searching for.

I love to laugh out loud at inappropriate times ,

Im here to entertain, amuse, disgust, show, belittle, titillate, befriend, befuddle, confuse and otherwise enrich your life experience with the joygasm that is Me.

(*NOTE In MY homeland, they call that sarcasm-look it up)

Lets see...more intimate details, I am NOT a switch...spanking, Paddling, Whipping, Flogging, and proper use of My riding crop are all good fun...Using insert able devices on YOU? Good thing.

Attempting to use insert able ANYTHING on Me? Bring your insurance card, it wont be pretty.

Will I befriend you?

Absolutely.

I will flirt with, say inappropriate things to, swap stories with, debate with and do all sorts of generally entertaining things with you.

As long as you can deal with that without getting all butt-hurt and offended?



I can be one of the dearest friends youll ever have-to hang with, chat on the phone with, shoot pool really badly with ,I.M. with ,torture your tastebuds with My cooking skills with, etcetera

If not? I shall TRY to endeavor to get over My crippled ego.

(4 seconds tick away)

ahhhh.....there. ALL better. See?

HOWEVER

IF having any sort of sexually chargedexplicit conversation or flirtation with you means that, in your mind its headed for the white picket fence, His her towel sets and domestic bds bliss? PLEASE up your dosage and move on.

Im a Biker, and a grade-A certifiable lunatic.

What I am NOT looking for in a partner

DRAMA QUEENS, and SCBABs annoy the living crap out of me and are not welcome in my life, it is too short to waste on such.. Wow if you have made it this far, thanks for hanging in there. Now, before you build your own personal altar to worship Me upon, or make a little voodoo doll to stab pins through, or begin sacrificing chickens for ritualistic love spells to make Me yours, go back and carefully reread the profile.

Approach Me with respect, you will receive it in return.

Approach Me for friendship, it will be cheerfully accepted, no strings attached.

Approach Me with an attitude, you get it back in spades.

Attack Me or My friends in ANY way, you will get it back a thousand fold.

Approach Me with cash, youre buying the first round.

Approach Me with a hatchet, weve probably already dated.

Sneak around My page friends list to see what Im up to? Thats just creepy.

Lets have fun, kiddies.
5/21/2015 10:25:46 PM: Watch out now, take care Beware of the thoughts that linger Winding up inside your head The hopelessness around you In the dead of night Beware of sadness It can hit you It can hurt you Make you sore and what is more That is not what you are here for

5/10/2009 6:18:52 PM: 'What if the Prince on the horse in your fairytaleIs right here in disguise?And what if the stars you've been reaching so high forAre shining in his eyes?'           If you wait too long, the fairytale Prince that is right in front of you, waiting for you to just hold out your hand, will be gone, never to return, just reach out and take his hand....

4/30/2009 5:59:05 PM: The Breakup   Youre leaving now Its in your voice, your actions There is no longer a way to hide it It does not suprise me To find that you planned it all alongI see it all so clearly now Your insincerity, your cold heart And me all starrey-eyed, and so in love If I was wiser I would have know by nowAs sure as time wears us away This lie is over Lost, as the love that lived inside me every dayOne thing that we can both be sure of That time will tell If you were wrongThe brightest ring around the moon Will darken when I dieAnd now youre all on your own Inside your empty house Youre claiming victory Knowing you were just using me And there is no one you can use nowWhen you wake, in the middle of the night And I am not there with my loving arm around you When you jump up in bed And no one is there to hold you and tell you it is fineWill you miss me, will you cry Will you tell yourself it was worth losing it all When you find out the Perfect one Was the one you let go

4/30/2009 5:54:15 PM: A List Of 100 Things About Me - Revised AgainFirst 3 inherent truths about me: A)  If you ignore me, I WILL go away B)  If you lie to me once you do not get another chance   C)  If you play games with me, or if you take me for granted I WILL go away  Back to our program: 1  ) I love dogs, all dogs, no exception and support the death penalty for k9 abuse, and if I ever win the lottery, would love to sponsor a no kill rescue shelter for dogs, especially English Bull Terriers 2  ) I am a VERY proud veteran of the Army Air Cavalry and a twice decorated.3  ) I once raced motorcycles and sports cars4  ) I own 2 classic 40th anniversary Corvettes a convertible, and a targa coupe that I am in love with5  ) I believe in, and deeply desire, passion every day of my life, any relationship without raw passion is a hollow and is just going through the motions6  )  I like to take naps under a down comforter on cold winter days especially when I can wake with my partner in my arms7  ) I believe the feel of a woman sitting behind you on a Harley is the second and third greatest feelings in the world8  ) My friendship does not come easily but I am fiercely loyal to my friends and they all know that I treat their friendship as a gift and not something taken for granted9  ) I have a huge romantic streak and  I believe in the art of seduction with women, I vividly remember and still have a deep fondness for the first girl I had a crush on10 ) I enjoy deep serious discussions with my partner on all aspects of our relationship, I always enjoy it when a partner shares all her deepest desires and fantasies, boredom is a death I do not wish to experience11 ) I enjoy the smell of a woman's hair when she rests her head on my shoulder12 ) I think a long hot shower is the greatest prelude to foreplay and I think the naked silhouette of my partner by moonlight is truly arousing13 ) I think being an ardent lover is just as, if not more important as being a good Dominant14 ) I enjoy sitting quietly on a sofa with my partner and having her lie in my lap sleeping and I love to gently brush her cheek and watch her eyes gently close15 ) I am a child of the night, when making love to my parner I enjoy the experience when it lasts long into the night, the next day we can catch up on sleep16 ) In another life I must have been a Werewolf and the Fallen Angel, explains the dark streak in my writings and my penchant for erotic biting17 ) I have earned my broken Harley Davidson wings  in a crash and have a nasty penchant for knives18 ) I briefly studied at the Culinary Institute and I love to cook and hold kink oriented dinner parties19 ) I am endeavoring to learn Portuguese, become better in my understanding of French and revive my all but dead lessons in German (for a very special angel)20 ) I have been dead for almost 2 full minutes, and now 2 more times, seems I can not get it right no matter how hard I try, I also desire to deeply love and be loved once again before I finally get it right21 ) I love to kiss and I am very good at it, and I believe the perfect kiss should last 20 or more minutes22 ) Some of my favorite books are “Immortal Poems of the English Language”, 'The Prophet' by Kahlil Gibran, and 'Zen And The Art Of Motorcycle Maintenance'  by Robert M. Pirsig23 ) If foreplay does not last at least an hour, it is not being done right and should always end with the words “Oh please”24 ) I believe a woman's most responsive sexual organ is between her ears25 ) I believe aftercare and soft personal time is a treasured art26 ) I believe any woman who takes the time to seduce is worth every minute of a man’s attention27 ) I believe Saturday nights are for kinky fun, Sunday mornings are for holding and laughing28 ) I believe the back of a woman's knee is one of the most overlooked erogenous zones, and love to nibble there29 ) I am an ordained minister and I am very spiritual, but not very religious, I believe in the Golden Rule, and I want to study Buddhism.30 ) I love the smell of Bulgari Noir and Eternity on a woman and think it gets sexier the longer she wears it31 ) I find a woman who is assertive in her day to day life, but submissive in her private life extremely sexy and quite arousing32 ) Kissing, touching, and caressing is an art form that is quickly dying33 ) Red lipstick is sexy on any woman34 ) A woman deserves roses (even Gerbera Daisies), kisses, and passion often35 ) I love to hear a woman say 'Let Me Take Care Of You' and truly mean it, but I also love to take very special care of the person whom I am in a relationship with and always make her feel wanted and special. Tell me you want me, tell me how much you care, tell me what your world is with me in it and I am yours.36 ) I believe those who immediately act like they own have never truly enjoyed the ecstasy of ownership37 ) I would love to meet the Dalai Lama once before I die and ask some serious questions (God seems to put me on hold)38 ) I am a lover of good coffee, especially with fine chocolate and I love Dove chocolate and Pretzel sticks39 ) I believe if a Dominant needs to use the words 'trust me' he has no grasp of a situation and needs to spend much more time in fostering that tust, in other words if you have to ask, you do not deserve40 ) I, like the wolf, believes in mating for life and when the day comes that someone and I decide to be one with each other, it will be for the rest of my life41 ) I am a post Bariatric patient that has lost over 125 pounds42 ) I love the morning and can sit and watch a sunrise for hours or spend all morning long making love43 ) I believe it is not wrong to desire a meaningful relationship, casual is fun, real is something magical44 ) I still hold the door open for a lady, pull the chair from the table for a lady, and stand when a lady comes to my table, it is just the gentleman in me45 ) I believe every kiss should have all the passion in your soul, wasted kisses are a sin46 ) EVERY woman deserves to be treated like a true lady and pampered often, as one would a rare jewel, until she proves herself otherwise47 ) I love to take days off from work and spend them with a lover doing something so much more productive than my job48 ) I think sitting in front of a fireplace with a roaring fire and holding someone you care for is absolute heaven49 ) Everything you do, good or bad, will revisit you 3 times greater. (Food for thought)50 ) I think every woman deserves as much romance, caressing, and passion in her life as she can take (It is not dead just being kept by a select few)51 ) I am a 4th Dan in Goju Karate and have studied for over 20 years52 ) I have a serious clothes addiction, especially Polo, Lacoste, and live for Coach accessories53 ) I wear Versace Blue and Bulgari Aqua colognes54 ) I believe that a wish made while being kissed during a sunset will come true55 ) I love gazing deeply into a lovers eyes and gently kissing her lips56 ) Being a gentleman is an art form and not a birth right57 ) I have studied and played the piano for over 20 years and have a 2 octave reach58 ) I like having my brow stroked while I drift off to sleep59 ) I like to nibble on my lovers lower lip for minutes on end and hear her soft moans60 ) I believe a sensual rub in the right areas can cure any form of tension and will always set a very nice mood61 ) I enjoy hearing low feral passionate moans from my lover62 ) I love seeing my lover in sexy underwear and lingerie63 ) I do not want to impress you with words, they are cheap, I want to impress you with me, just the me you should get to know64 ) I love tequila and tonics and after 3 or more clothes start getting lost65 ) My taste in music is at best eclectic, I love the music from the 40’s  up to Def Lepard and the Scorpions, as well as 5 for Fighting and Bare Naked Ladies. Also the Beatles, Stones, most of the music of the 70's and 80's.  I also love to spend quiet nights with my partner drinking fine wine and listening to classical music and greatly dislike (greatly) country or rap66 ) I believe the small of a woman’s back in an overlooked erogenous zone deserving much attention, I love to gently bite the small of a woman's back just to the left or right of center (especially if she bound) and watch her arch and moan, I also love to do the same just inside each shoulder blade or run my teeth down her spine67 ) I once played backup for Josh Radin at a NYC rock club68 ) I flew a medical evacuation helicopter and have stayed friends with more than a few brothers I had saved69 ) I deeply and passionately believe for all its faults we live in the best country in the world70 ) I have had a Dominant personality and streak since the age of 16 (talk about a rough puberty)71 ) I have been 'patched in' for some time now and am fiercely loyal to my 'Brothers' as they are to me and if you hurt any member of my extended family, or decide to create 'issues' with me then you and I will have “unfinished business” and sooner or later you and I WILL have a face to face 'discussion'72 ) I love the look and feel of Harley leathers and have been told I have more leather in my closet than Betty Page73 ) I do not waste my time with snobs, stuck ups, or the ever popular SCBAB, life is too short74 ) I enjoy reading erotica, but greatly dislike reading pornography ( If the work relies on 4 letter words it is pornography)75 ) I believe in the inherent beauty of all women, and it is a gentleman's pleasure to find, explore, and revel in it76 ) I have seen the worst this world has to offer, and come out the other side alive, so I have a very low tolerance level for the bullshit online sites offer, I can be the best friend you will ever have, so IF YOU WISH TO BE MY FRIEND THEN BE MY FRIEND OTHERWISE JUST GO AWAY AND KEEP YOUR DRAMA QUEEN, ASS PIRATE  BULLSHIT TO YOURSELF77 ) I deeply enjoy public displays of affection in all forms by both my partner as well as myself, it fosters passion and lust in the purest forms78 ) I am an ardent lover who believes that the longer you take to please someone it will pay unmeasurable dividends79 ) I have the nickname 'Joker' but only my closest friends know why80 ) I have a tattoo on my left shoulder blade, and only a select few know what it is, but the women who do see it never fail to fall in love with it81 ) My house sits on the very top of a mountain and overlooks 2 valleys, and a mother black bear walks through often82 ) I have been above the arctic circle and have seen the aurora borealis while camping on an ice pack83 ) I believe holding hands and hugging are essential for good mental health84 ) I sit on my deck during snow storms and watch the deer85 ) I adore the Christmas season and get more enjoyment out of giving someone special gifts than getting them86 ) I burn candles and incense daily   87 ) I meditate daily and practice 2 different oriental methods of meditation88 ) I am smarter than the average bear89 ) A truly submissive woman, who embraces her desires is the sexiest creature on this earth90 ) I do not suffer the company of someone who does not or will not look me in the eyes91 ) There is very little I will not do to help a veteran, especially Vietnam veterans as I believe we still owe them so much they never received92 ) I adore women who embrace and exhibit an active and healthy sex drive and feel neither threatened or intimidated by it93 ) I love going down on a woman especially during a bath or shower94 ) I believe begging is an aphrodisiac to almost any Dominant95 ) I have made very passionate love on one of my Harley Davidson's96 ) I have attended and was an active participant at a nude biker rally97 ) I deeply believe experienced women are the best lovers98 ) I thoroughly dislike indecisive people who treat D/s as some kind of experiment99 ) I believe that I may hold the lock but my submissive always holds the key100) Last but certainly not least, I do not love quickly or for that matter easily, but when I choose to love it is one and one only and it will be with all my heart and for a very very long time.....To answer a question I have had about me: 'Who Am I': I am an experienced scuba diver who enjoys wreck diving, I am someone who truly enjoys cursing at rude drivers in traffic, I am a devoted brother and uncle, I am very good at my chosen profession, I am an accomplished writer and graphic artist, I am a former rugby player, I am a former EMT-P, I am intensely generous to my friends and family, I am someone who does not suffer fools but has endless patience for those who have the desire to learn from me, I am a person who loves to wear black, I am someone who truly loves to laugh at himself as much as I love to laugh at others, I am someone who believes that everyone deserves respect no matter what their job or orientation until they prove otherwise, I am a former type 2 diabetic who is gratefully in remission, I am someone who deeply believes in love, and lastly I am your worst nightmare, and a f'ing cold hearted snake if you choose to hurt me or someone I love, there are always debts to pay. Thank you for patiently reading about me!    Bon chance  

4/29/2009 2:02:32 PM: The Battle For Our MindsEvery one of us, in one way or another, is put to the test every day of our lives.  We fight our day to day battles without giving it a second thought.  But there are the battles we fight by ourselves night after night after night, never having the benefit of our loved ones or friends to help us or give the slightest degree of comfort.                 I am, as one very good friend describes, a Death Warrior, in my life I have had to face my own death three times, and each time I beat the bastard back down.  I refuse to let him take me before I am good and ready to go. I look at it as being lucky (very lucky), I have always been quite lucky when I go to the casino’s ; but it only lasts for the first 30 minutes I am there.  I see this experience with death as just me being lucky in the first cosmic 30 minutes of my life (I was shot twice while I was In the service and got very lucky there also).  I know in my heart that one day my streak will end andI have to admit, I have been feeling as if my lucky streak is rapidly coming to a close.        The battles I alluded to are the demons we fight every night, the one’s that Scrooge called “a legion of hobgoblins” that come out to play every night.  They are the most heinous pack one can imagine, there is the demon of doubt, the demon of primal fear, the demon of second guessing, the demon of reproach, and the worst, the most hideous of them all, the demon of regret.  We fight with these and others every night, they show us no mercy, and there is never a place to hide.  They rob us of sleep, they steal bits and pieces of our lives, they take some of our fondest memories and turn them into nightmares.  I have been raging a war so violent lately, I feel as if they are finally winning.  I refuse to take comfort in a bottle of pills that numb my mind and for a very short time keep the demons at bay.  The choice is mine and mine alone to face them, because I know they never go sway and will wait until I am at my weakest to attack.  I fight them because, each battle, win or lose I am a better person, a more caring person, a better friend, and a truly deeply caring individual.  This is not possible without facing my own demons.               One day, and I do not know when, I will lose my battle with the demons and with death, but I know no matter who in this life chooses to physically or emotionally hurt me or do injury to me, I will fight the good fight.  I know that I will do my best against the demons inside me and the demons others choose to set upon me.  The only question I have for anyone who chooses to set anything upon me is, are YOU ready to deal with that demon when I kick its ass and send it back to you, three times stronger and three times more pissed, three times the horror you set free?            “Won’t you look down upon me Jesus              You’ve got to help me make a stand              You just got to see me though another day              My bodies aching and my time is at hand              And I won’t make it any other way” 

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