Fairytales are stories that haven't finished yet..

True or Not True??

I hope you all were naughty enough to get noticed by Santa's nice list.  Hopefully not too naughty and had him put a little something under the tree for you.

Everyone has their preferences on their 'ideal' mate.  Insulting someone else with derogatory comments makes you look ignorant and intolerant of others choices.

She knows that her heart, body, and mind belongs to her Master, though her soul and spirit remain free.   ~ AKDRAGON

I firmly believe that the Man is the head of the household and that his word is law.  The woman has the ability to voice her opinion, though the sole decision is in the hands of her man and his word is final. 

I also believe that a man is responsible for his woman's well being and needs to set boundaries as well as protect and guide her.  It is the her role to accept his guidance and follow his lead even if she believes it is not the right decision.  I believe this is the natural balance of a relationship.  Going against this logic causes strife in the relationship.

If a woman ever goes against what her man has decided, then she must take responsibility for her actions and accept the consequences and punishment.  I don't consider this as 'old world thinking' or barbaric.  We are taught, as we grow up, that if we break a rule we will be held accountable.

Our lives are always evolving in what we want out of life, though our core being remains constant if we truly know who we are. 

A MASTER'S CREED

This is my slave.  There are many like her, but this one is mine.

My slave is my responsibility.  That is the duty she entrusted to me.  I must guide her as I have directed my own life.

My slave, without me, is unguided. Without my slave, I am not satisfied.  I must direct her with a firm hand.  I will respect and cherish her willing gift of submission as not to take it for granted or abuse it.  I will keep open lines of communication.  I will never punish in anger. I will...

My slave and I know what counts in this TPE relationship, is not how we compliment each other, the passion of our lovemaking, or the intensity of our play sessions. We know that it is our commitment that counts. We will endure...

My slave is human, even as I, because I am her life. Thus, I will learn to protect her as a Father. I will learn her weaknesses, strengths, her body, and her soul. I will keep my slave content and want for nothing, even as she lavishes My every desire and need. We will become intertwined in each others' lives. We will...

Before God, I swear this creed. My slave and I are one with each other. My slave is My willing devotee as I am Her protector and provider.

While I'm flattered that submissive men view my profile I will tell you right now that I'm not interested.  All mail from men goes directly to my bulk folder to never see the light of day.  There is a man out there for you but it's not me.

It's not about finding the one you can live with.  It's about finding the one you can't live without

There is nothing better than having a woman accentuate her Man's life.  She DOES this out of love for her man and shows Him in many ways. She listens, learns, and remembers His tastes.  She accomplishes basic tasks without instructions.  She relies on Him to make the household decisions and repairs.  She accepts her punishment when she has disappointed Him.  She honors His wishes even when she knows He's wrong.  She comes to His bed to feel Him close to her.  She always tells the truth no matter the consequences.  Above all else she is faithful. 

Being a Man does NOT, in any way, mean you can take advantage of your woman.  She has given HIM the honor and responsibility of being her leader, provider, and protector.  He IS her pathfinder, lover, and guardian.  He doesn't become lazy or useless; if it needs to get done, He does it.  He never abuses her emotionally or physically.  He restrains Himself and would never violate or force Himself upon her. He disciplines and corrects her when necessary.  He listens to her advice even when it’s not asked for.  He is her shoulder to cry on.  He takes care of her when she is sick.  Above all else He knows her limits as His woman. 

My point to all of this is at the core of BDSM, it's still a relationship.  It has give and take but one HAS to surrender it before it can be taken.  Taking anything by force or by the unwilling IS abuse.  Would you take, say a car for instance, from someone just because you could?  If feelings and love are foreign to you then you need to go back and find them.  They can't just be tossed aside.

Have you ever thought about 'what if' Ward Cleaver was a Dom?  Would He force June over His knee and spank her?  Would He sexually take advantage of her?  Would June be embarrased from arousal after His hand was up her skirt?  Would He grab her hair and force her to Look at him if she started back talking?