Collarspace

New for 2018 Basically done with this shit site only logging on when I get a message since Im not a complete pessimist. All I can offer at this point is to chat and take it from there. Im not overly concerned about ever finding what I seek (keep reading). If it happens, it happens. If not, fuck off LOL

NEVER call Me maam ,dear, or Mistress.

I envision this relationship as a lot of me being pampered. Refer to my cartoon, its accurate.

You will be within a reasonably short drive from Me and and within a reasonable amount of years from my age of 44. I am willing to have some wiggle room on a younger man, but definitely not too much older (will depend on how you keep yourself)........SO, If you are in your late 20s you may have a chance.

You mustmeet that criteria and beREAL about meeting and having a long term relationship (vanilla bf in front of the world and kinky in private) in order for Me to respond back. I cant stress that enough. Im not looking for some guy to come over and clean my house for kicks as my living situation doesnt allow for it. Before sending Me an email. My goalis to have a boyfriend in vanilla world in front of those close to Meus and a Ds relationship behind closed doors and never revealing that special bond.

DO NOT bother Me if you dont meet My criteria. Teenagers and barely legals give Me a break, please, just give Me a fucking break! Same thing goes for you dirty old men. No chance in hell. There just isnt. You will approach respectfully and with a picture of your FACE. DO NOT send Me chat requests as I will promptly reject them. I am not looking for a 247 situation as I require a balance of vanilla and lifestyle so dont bother me if thats what you want. I also DEMAND honesty. Do I sound like Im not brutally honest? Believe Me if you try to pretend to be what Im looking for, and youre not, Ill know it sooner than you think. To those of you that have bothered me in the past and have been rejected dont bother me again, it just makes you look pathetic and I havent got the time. For those of you who think Im not worthy of your time fuck yourselves. NOW, before you decide to send that email and waste My time...........start from the beginning and read this again.