I'm 42 years old and live in Wilmington DE. I'm a lifestyle dominant and I've been into this lifestyle for over 20 years. Although I'm into the d/s lifestyle, I'm not the doom and gloom type you know they type (the 'on your knees' type lol). On the contrary I consider myself to be a smart, funny and sweet guy (hence the name), but make no mistake, I take d/s very seriously and I do love being a dom and being in control, I just know that seriousness needs to be balanced with a sense of fun and adventure. I have a lot of varied hobbies too many to list (if you want to know just ask). And I hope to meet someone from this site that is looking for the same things.

My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for a submissive woman that can have a d/s relationship in the bedroom and have a grown up adult relationship outside the bedroom. I'm not into wasting someone's time and would appreciate the same thing. I have an attraction to BBWs (a preference) who are White (again a preference). Age is not an issue to me, but personality is. Be able to have fun, to be able to talk. Be able to express yourself, to try new things. Be able to be experiment. Be able to be kinky. But most of all be able to take the time to get to know someone.

If anything has awakened a spark of curiosity. Please feel free to get back to me.