in over 10 years of being on this website, i have never found having a profile to be useful. now I have facebook. getting to know a person has alway sbeen about conversation for me anyway; difficult to do though e-mails.

I like to take things slowly. i like talking. i like chatting online in text, or having phone conversations. i'm very much a words person, and mental aspect is more important to me than physical. i'm very into power play, and deep psychological BDSM. if humiliation, or ification, and mind games are a turn off, you probobally won't like my style.

so if you want to learn more about me, ask. I'll probably give you my real name and let you google me. that feels more honest.

if you need anything else, here are some basic facts.

I am a writer. i write scientifically accurate fantasy and science fiction.
I suffer from severe dyslexia.
I have been in a successful, loving, open relationship for the last 5 years, which i am still in.

I am always happy to talk, explore, and make freinds.