I am single, no kidswith no baggage.I have nothing to stop me from making a real commitment if i am able to meet someone who truly embraces this lifestyle likeI have.
I believe I have a good understanding who I am and what I am seeking. I understand this is about the mind first and the connection between a dominant and submissive. I know many who call themselves Domme but over the years I have only met maybe 5 true dominant women.
Both a Mistress and a sub have needs. For those who feel a sub does not have needs are foolish. A Mistress has a need to control and a sub has needs to be controlled. It is not about sex, money or a way to exploit. I also am not one to want things done my way however there has to be common interests.
.There is a bond between a Mistress and Her sub. I seek someone who thrives on control and feels controlling is caring.I have experienced many different variations of this lifestyle over the years.I have had play partners wherewegot together to fulfill each other needs. This has been the majority of my experience. One Mistress and I played for almost 5 years. There was a bond that was not about love, it was about pleasing.
I have had one Mistress where we had a relationship that went beyond just Ds. It was the best relationship I ever had. I cared for her so much and would endure what ever She wanted and hope for more even if I hated it.
I would love to find another relationship that will go beyond BDSM but I know that is extremely hard to find. I would be okay with someone who likes to play with the hopes of finding more.
If you would like to meet a honest true sub male please give me a chance.
