Can you not waste my time sending me a one or two word greeting?  If you want me to be interested in you, make me interested.  BE LOCAL and have a place to meet.

My life is currently working well now except for some minor health issues.  That's the price of getting older.  I have a man servant that handles most of my day to day needs, but another masochist would be lovely to play with. 

I expect that you be local. I am not interested if you are outside the Indianapolis area. I dont care if you are passing though Indy and want to make a stop for a top. I am not an on-call top.

I do not want a relationship with you. I have a relationship, I am only interested in another masochist.



This is a two part profile.

Second part is for people who just want corporal punishment.

Please, if you are not serious about meeting or NOT local, dont waste my time.



********Part One*************

Please be at least 35 years of age...a little under is a personal consideration but highly unlikely. I am not into those just looking for kinky sex. There will be no sex. Also be in Indiana. That is in the United States for those of you writing from somewhere else in the world.



You should not be allergic to cats or BBWs.



1. Live in Indiana. (Especially for the first part)

2. Dont write otherwise.Dont waste your time or mine.

3. Speaking of wasting my time...if you arent going to follow though, then go the fuck away. Dont promise everything and then dont follow though. It pisses me off then I want nothing ever to do with you again.



And did I mention I have cats?



Now, if you made it pass all that....you MUST:

Meet me  at in a public vanilla setting or if you are at all social within the kink community, we can meet at a munch Or local event place. Any questions can be addressed at the public meeting. But one question can be answered now.



No, I will not want personal service (sex).



Not into sissies or CD, but neither am I dismissive of it. I don't  care how you dress as long as you suffer for me.







******* PART TWO *********

Now, for those of you just interested in the corporal punishment side of me, bless you, there  is one rule before we meet to play: I will have to meet you face to face in a public, vanilla setting. Its my safety net as well as yours. There is no compromise on that. If we are agreeable after we meet, then we'll  have to work out a day and time and place for play.



Expect to be in pain. I love pain....as long as its yours. I will not baby you, I will not have mercy on you. Ill keep dishing it out until you utter your safe word or I see that your body has reached its limit. You will have to trust me. I will have to trust you. I will expect you to speak up. Silent suffering is boring. Also, I dont cater to fetishes. I dont like worship of any sort and I will never allow you to touch me in a sexual manner.

Why?

I am not looking to establish a relationship of any sort with you. We will have respect between us. Nothing more. Do not apply if you expect sex. Ain't happening.