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I have been enjoying the interactions and outreach here, but am finding a lots of interesting times in Wisconsin. Feel free to write if a post of mine or the profile interest you, or if you have comments or any questions. There are NO strings attached to this, and no obigations either way, except the expectation of honesty in what we discuss.
I have many dear friends for life and play both kinky and vanilla. I am open to polyamory and to finding submissive and dominant female partners.
I am frequently amazed at how much people limit themself on line. I know that if a person has intelligence they are not going to just jump into a relationship if anybody approaches them. They also are not going to try to push anybody else into this. So, those who go for either side of that "weed themself out" of the picture.
I respect consensuality, so I try not to approach those whose profile indicates I am out of their preference zone. I have been VERY pleased when they have approached me.
I am a very experienced person and a good resource, so I do make suggestions to people. I also participate in BDSM events and activities in or near Wis.
My thought is that it is too bad that so many folks are so uptight about getting together with "the perfect person" that they do not share their thoughts with anyone else. Since I have found there ARE no perfect humans, I wish them good luck.
I have learned from the newest newbies (sub or Domme) I have trained no matter what their experience or diversity or orientation. I have learned from the oldest most experienced people I have known too. All have good thoughts to share, for we are all different and have different paths.
Best Wishes to all!
5/5/2007 10:36:08 PM
Interesting. Someone sent me a note Sat. 5-5-07 asking why I do not attend any of the poly events here in Madison, then deleted their account.
I attend most of the BD/SM discussion and social group meetings here in Madison, and in several other parts of the state. My partner and I both enjoy these very much. We do not get to many of the fetish events in the local bars because of our work schedules.
I know some other poly folks and swinging folks who like BD/SM too. However I am not usually aware of groups holding poly events until I hear about them after the events.
I have no problem discussing poly group activities and likely I would enjoy attending group meetings too, but I work full time and have a limited amount of extra time to do so.
Thank you for the question, I wish your account was still in existance so I could talk to you about this.
1/2/2005 4:18:59 AM

The "interests" one can chose from on this site are not flexible, so my some of my interests are listed in my journal entries. Consensuality is a strong need of mine. Safety is a priority. I have much experience over many years, with partners from novice to experienced. I am a primarily dominant but can submit with the right person. The fulfillment of both sides of my nature is important. I realize that is not right for everyone. I am open to discussing with switch, submissive and / or dominant  women.  Only "yes" means yes in BD/SM negotiations. I respect limits, boundaries. My experience is extensive, personal limits are few, except if a woman does not enjoy getting oral attention, things will not work for very long. 

1/1/2005 2:13:29 PM
Happy New year!

Best of all you can wish for be with you and yours in 2005 and after!

A person in one of my favorite Wis. groups sent back Holiday best wishes from Iraq, and noted that the enemy has been firing rockets and mortars a lot at their area during the holidays, but has fortunately only hitting empty sand.

May the enemies of our troops always blow empty holes in sand as they reveal their positions through the trajectories of their own munitions.

I will never forget sitting on the bridge of a vessel filled with artillery powder charges, beached on a cargo ramp filled with everything from big shells to bombs to prop charges to napalm to Agent Orange as big NVA rockets whistled over our heads chasing a S. Vietnamese 2.5 ton empty truck around on a sandbar across the river from us. Why??? I do not care why, we all would have been a cloud of smoke and Missing In Action if they hit us or the cargo ramp, which were a lot bigger targets than the truck and stationary ones.

Maybe it was someone's prayers?

Thanks to the real Powers that be for all the help or troops can have!

Best Wishes,

Phil
12/24/2004 3:36:17 AM
Things seem a bit slow since the collarme crash of last week.
My local groups are as usual very interesting, and having friends to share the holidays with is good.
I'm hoping to connect with some of the Wiccan groups here in the Wisconsin area during the next year. The individual Wiccans I have met seem to be very good folks to know. Perhaps I'll find a coven near this area of compatible people. I know that not all Wiccans are Pagan and not all Pagans are Wiccan, and not all of either group has D/s interests. We shall see.
11/12/2004 8:46:26 PM
I do enjoy the interesting people I meet here and in my own area. I am still doing a lot of outreach.
Exchanging thoughts is good.
Had an awesome experience 11-11-04 visiting a Veteran's park here in Wisconsin. Sharing emotions with other war vets and with others who care was an enriching and healing experience.
This is a place of much power.
10/17/2004 6:10:07 PM
The goodness of warm friends and shared energy seems to be the Best Blessing I find here.
I have done outreach in many ways locally for our area groups and individually for people for many years.
It is great to see more and more of this happening!
In realtime as well as on line!
Best to you !
8/30/2004 3:39:55 PM
Well this has been an interesting month, and though there was much to work through, Goddess also brought a good deal of positive thought.
Did a few changes on my profile. I figure that it is best to keep things as up to date as possible.
Long time since things here were settled but I can see that taking place.
The negotiations of life continue, and I realize some shall work out and others will not. I do miss an old friend's "Moon magick".
8/17/2004 8:49:59 AM
Goddess brings lots of interest to life, that is certain.
I keep working on improving things, helping people, keeping contact with friends, and helping folks learn as I can.
It is a stressful time for me just now, but all will improve soon.
Looking forward to a nice weekend with friends!
1/1/2004 9:38:38 PM
1. Consensuality and Safety
2. Earn respect, build trust
3. Giving oral sex to Women ( 7/28 )
4. Cherishing a submissive
5. Melting Women down with multiple orgasms
6. Total surrender to the right Dominant Mistress
7. Giving Bondage
8. Accepting Bondage
9. I make my own toys and enjoy using them and feeling them.  Since consensuality is very important to me, the word "Yes" is required before anyone feels or uses any toys. Some of my many skills and interests include OTK spanking, paddles, strap-ons, vibrators, brushes, floggers (silky, stingy or thuddy), whips, quirts, dildoes, vipers, canes, switches and more.

Since all of the different preference sections have different menu choices from each other, I decided to list some major ones here. I am familiar with most items listed in the "Switch" section, but many are not as major interests of mine as these listed here.
12/21/2003 4:22:20 AM
It seems that my seeking continues bringing me those wishing to learn but not in a position to become partners. I certainly enjoy helping new women learn the path that works for them. Goddess knows how much I have enjoyed the sweet slaves I have known, and Adored the Mistresses who came to know me.
However I am seeking to find long term submissive(s), or slave(s). I know wonderful Mistresses with whom I share many ideas, so this part of my life looks like it shall be fullfilled, but am open to meeting new Dominant or switch Women too..
11/8/2003 6:23:16 AM
Sometimes when life seems to be a tangle of brambles, i just think back to the Beauty Goddess has allowed me in the Dominant Women i have been permitted to serve.

The serenity of total surrender and totally being Taken into Her Power can not be described. Only those of us who have experienced this with Dominant Partners can understand.

It is NEVER the same, for my chemistry with each Woman i have served has been different.

It is always Beautiful.

Some have matched my cravings, some have had totally different needs, but Always Their Pleasure was my greatest need.
Alyonka
 
 Age: 47
 Pinal County, Arizona