Collarspace

Im an experienced dom living in northern New England who is searching for a submissive partner who is NOT a doormat, you would need to have dreams, aspirations and ideals of your own, even if you are quite submissive personally. Your level of submission could vary from bedroom submissive to outright slave but in any case a loving relationship would be a requirement. Im poly and open about it, with me attracted to women or those who present convincingly as women. Genetic girl, preop, or post op. It doesnt matter to me. With BDSM my main interest is in bondage, although I enjoy sensory deprivation, forced orgasms, discipline, chastity, and many other types of play. I am a loving sadist. Im an expert with leather and chain devices, detail oriented, and my level of dominance depends a lot more on my partners comfort and experience level than mine. I can push an experienced submissive, but also teach a novice and I use my skills at a speed my partner is comfortable with. Ill exploit every ounce of control you give me up to TPE if you give it. Im a good communicator and listener and since I am rarely in a rush, Im as patient as a chopping block. Bondage and helplessness for my partner is a must, but almost anything else is open for negotiation. Experience, age, race, and looks are not as important to me as integrity and being fit. Bondage works better on thin to average frame women so I am only looking for partners with that body type. I say what I mean and mean what I say, and prefer people who do likewise. A good sense of humor is a major plus since I while I am dominant, I keep my role in context with real life. My goal would be to make you a better version of yourself, even if this means I put you in chains to do it. I can travel quite far for the right partner, so distance is not a barrier. As for me Im not into the whole 9 to 5 thing so Im a small business owner. My business occupies me roughly 5 to 10 days a month so I have a lot of spare time when I want it. I am a nonsmoker and seldom drink, but I love dining out. Besides that I play tabletop RPGs with friends, love pets (especially cats), read quite a bit, hike mountains(I am pursuing numerous lists in the Mountain Time Zone), and travel a great deal. I grew up outside NYC and have friends all over the country. Almost all of my friends know I am as kinky as a cheap garden hose. If you want to know more, just ask. Love isnt like money, the more you give, the more you get in return.