I am a professional in the vanilla world and I wear a suit by day.  I enjoy putting on a tux and going out to formal dinners, as much as I do putting on a pair of jeans and heading out into the wild.

Be it a golf course, a sailboat, waterskiing or out for a cruse on the bike, I just enjoy life.

As for BDSM I love smell of leather and thrill that it gives the mind.  Let's be honest the mind is where the best sex is.  Serving, being blindfolded or bound is very stimulating. Or if you are the one holding the leash and the crop you have to admit it stimulates the mind and it is the mind that will give you the best foreplay in the world.  I

enjoy being with like minded people.  I have found over the years that swingers and BDMS'ers are far more honest and open to about everything in life then any vanilla person you'll meet in public. The vanilla crowd walk around wearing a MASK of what they think society believes is proper.  So it is to say, I am looking for friends and those wishing to partake in pleasures not suited for the throngs of society. 

I'm experienced and traveled.  NSA parties in New Orleans, Leather events in Washington and “Kink in the Caribbean” Hedo III, Jamaica (Very Wild).  The stories I could share.

Now if you have fantasies, then all you need to do is write me a note and share.  Perhaps I can make them come true, or offer some advice on where to find what you seek. 

So I'm a man that enjoys the lifestyle.  I'm open to discuss what you would like.  I seek friends. I would love to find a woman that is a business professional by day making all the decisions in her vanilla world, yet yearns to come home, to turn it all off just to submit.

Life is a journey so let's enjoy ourselves along the way.