Smiling I am sensible,  sane and solvent. well educated and with a breadth of general knowledge . I have a brain and a body, both in pretty good shape. I am Completely unshockable, but I would love to see you try to amaze me! Unfortunately I also love my job - which means I spend far too much time at work. Nottinghamshire based but can travel .

I am looking for someone who needs a connection that is definitely something beyond the usual  - and I guarantee to provide that! I have a fascination with how the psychological and the physical interact in bdsm . So how the right words can get deep in your head , and trigger just the right responses in you. 

I am looking for an adventurous woman who has interests that are more extreme or unusual . Looks are definitely not as important as your personality. More important to find someone who will try anything once - and more often than once when you find you enjoy it. A kinky imagination gets you straight onto my A-list! I do not find a door mat challenging and much prefer a partner who is intelligent and independent , and stands up for herself and others ... but perhaps needs a break from that behind closed doors .

I am happy to chat online without assumptions to discover the foundations of chemistry , but I do like a face to face chat over food and drink to best judge that chemistry in the flesh 

If I am not the one for you , then best of luck in your search ...! 

John