Currently in a lasting relationship with the girl of my dreams! That being said, we have decided to branch out a little and are considering adding to our little family. We are interested in subs/slaves/littles of any gender or orientation and are open to couples around our age as well, provided there is a strong connection. So send us a message! Who knows where it will lead?

This is where I say things that inform people about who I am, but I'm really bad about explaining anything about myself (as I have not yet found an explanation for my existence).

Firstly, I'm not a misogynistic, abusive homophobic asshole. I respect everyone from all walks of life. I hold the door for them, I pull out chairs and take their coats, I listen to how their day went and actually care and I put their needs before my own. Does that make me a weak Dominant? I don't believe so.

I like to believe that BDSM is an optional supplement to a healthy and happy relationship. While most people new to the scene or looking in from outside imagine a 24/7 lifestyle as being filled with leather pants, corsets, dungeons and the endless semi-consensual rape and torture of the slave/submissive, I feel that to be a negative stereotype. I'd rather have my partner happy, healthy, exposed to fresh air/sunshine and above all, I want them to feel safe and loved. There will be days or times when we want to walk on the wild side and do all those fun things you see on Kink.com (and I'm fully down for that), but that's an exception to the rule.

Call me a poser or a fake all you want, chances are, I won't give a damn. Chances are, I'm more of a real person than you might ever be. I don't need to adopt silly empty titles, put on pretentious airs, treat my partner like a chunk of fuckable meat or behave like a pompous asshole to have a lasting and fun D/s relationship.

If I haven't chased you off with my cavalier attitude toward such "serious business," send me a message, I love chatting with new people...

Respectfully,

JD (and Maya!)