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TruthSeekr
Hetero Male, 54, Mississauga, Canada 
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TruthSeekr

I seek the truth that comes from you completely opening yourself to me. I value the freedom both gain from the surrender of inhibitions -- not just physical, but emotional as well. I desire to journey down a path of ever increasing binding to each other.

I believe that with power comes responsibility. My real name literally means 'protector', and I offer this completely.

I make no claims of my abilities for I do not have an ego that requires it. I ask for only what is freely given, but I challenge you to give all.

I do not give pain for my pleasure. I use protocol not for its own sake, but as a means to an end. However, pushing limits is both a means and an end.

Ask and I shall answer. Let the journey begin.

 

 

 

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Because this is a concern to some women, yes, I am single. My saying it is no proof of course. I am happy to help you satisfy yourself in this regard. Also, I do not have children. I have been divorced for some time and have lost touch with my ex.

2/2/2011 11:19:15 AM: As you can see on my Flickr account, I enjoy photography.  Here's the link: http://www.flickr.com/photos/thepitcher/sets/72157624952047352/   You will also notice that I don't have a lot of people shots.  I would like to do more portrait shots and candids.  If you would like to have a bunch of good photos, I would be happy to take them.  If you would like some that you wouldn't want some guy you don't know having copies of, you can bring your own memory card for those.   Shoots can be outdoors, a public place indoors, your place or mine.

5/15/2010 1:55:15 PM: D/s OutcomesHere's another response I gave recently on what I am seeking by talking about some of the things that I value.  I have covered many of these elements in different ways in my journal, but this list is probably a little different twist.- I value passion.  I want to bring out a love for living to the fullest in you.  I want to lower your inhibitions and increase your desires.  I want you to live a life where, with me, you don't have to hold back, you don't have to censor yourself.- I value intimacy.  I don't simply mean physical tenderness (although that is important as well).  Instead I refer to two people being completely open with each other.  I want to earn and feel your trust.  I want you to feel protected.- I value growth.  I want to take you on a journey where you constantly learn new things about the world around you and yourself.  I also want you to grow in your service to me and your submission to me.  - I value serenity and focus.  I want you to find a calmness in yourself that is only possible when with me -- a place where nothing in the outside world matters.  I want there to be moments in time where I am absolutely the centre of your universe.I want all these things and I know how to achieve them.  I do not seek them all at once.  I seek to cultivate them over time and to watch them blossom.

5/13/2010 8:00:16 PM: Making Changes to a SubmissiveSometimes submissives ask me what changes I would make to them.  Recently, a submissive seeking modification inspired me to share the approach I would use with someone expecting this.  What follows is a modified version of my message to her.  I touch on these themes in earlier posts with this coming at them from a different starting point.  ~~~Great sculptors say that their work is already hidden in the rock and that their job is to expose it. Put less poetically, an artist must work with his medium taking advantage of the unique characteristics in each piece. For me, the same is true in the D/s world. I don't have a single set way that I want a sub to be. I want to discover the unique characteristics that lay waiting to be exposed. Only then, can I create a thing of real beauty.If I was your Dom, I would want you to be all that you can be. However, to know what that is, I would have to get to know you very well. For me, this 'discovery' process is part of the stages of submission. Of course, I have my own likes and dislikes, but to completely ignore who you are would be foolish. An obvious example is that for some spanking is a turn-on while for others it is the ultimate in real humiliation -- making it a suitable punishment for one, but not for another.Here are some of the objectives I would have with you -- achieved through a variety of techniques that I would be happy to discuss:- I would seek to emotionally bond you to me.- I would seek to lower your inhibitions and heighten your desires.- I would seek to have you better yourself with learning and activity.- I would seek to heighten your sense of submission increasing the value you placed on it.So, not a specific list at this point like 'start every day with coffee and sex. I seek to affect you deeper than that.

8/7/2009 9:54:37 AM: Achieving Your SubmissionI believe a D/s relationship is a journey we take together.  I get the most out the dynamic if I take you far.  I take you on that journey with a number of techniques.  These aren't about the tasks etc themselves, but about how they make you feel and where they take you over time.  They include Service, Adventure, Connection, Repetition and Control techniques among others.  ServiceWhen you are required to perform a task for my pleasure or ease, not only do I get the direct benefit, but it reinforces your role.  So, I will give you tasks to perform even when we are not together.AdventureI have spoken about adventure before in more detail.  I want to have amazing experiences together because there is nothing like shared fear or excitement to connect you more with me.  I also want to breakdown some of the boundaries you have been socialized to accept. I want to free you.ConnectionUltimately, all of this involves bonding us together, but I specfically want to work on keeping you connected to me.  Giving you a task to do when I am not around keeps you thinking about me.  Denying your senses one minute and then filling them the next focuses you on what I can give or take away.  Establishing public or private symbols that you notice throughout the day keeps you connected.  Directed imagery (through my deliberate words to you) can heighten your feelings.  I want to bond you to me and with it build your need.RepetitionUnless you grew up in an openly D/s household, you have been socialized to behave in vanilla ways despite your D/s desires.  As I have said before, we all have certain inhibitions and walls.  Having to repeat certain words and actions over and over builds your acceptance of new ideas and ways of being and can be used to build your submission.  I want to build your acceptance of your darkest desires and then take you further.ControlMy direction of aspects of your life will deepen your submission to me.  I don't have time to make every single decision.  However, when I tell you what to wear, what to eat or when to go to bed, I am strengthening the dynamic between us.  The more control I use, the more you can just let go, surrender and enjoy.Now everyone is different so some techniques will get more response in some than others.  I adapt to the situation. However, there are basic elements of human nature at play so that most of these will have an impact on you.  And I want to have a profound impact on you.  Ready for the journey?

1/1/2009 9:26:53 PM: Goreans, Sadists and Daddies Oh My!As we know, there are many ways to pursue the D/s lifestyle.  First, you have matters of degree.  You may identify has Dom/(or)sub, Master/slave, Top/bottom.  To some these are pretty much the same thing, but to many others they are each very different.  Then, we have old guards, Daddies and girls, Goreans, Sadists and masochists, and on and on and on.  Even if the only title you identify with is submissive, you can be a service sub, a protocol sub, a sensation sub -- and again on it goes.Some people fall tightly into some of these categories.  Some people can't stand some of these types of BDSM lifestyle.  Me, I am definitely not some things -- like I am not a sub -- but I am accepting of all these choices assuming we aren't talking the big taboos like kids.  In fact, I find it interesting that there are people who themselves pursue an alternate lifestyle, but are not that accepting of people pursuing a different variation of that lifestyle.If you have a curiousity about Gor, I can teach you about being a kajira.  If you are a Gor hater, don't worry, I have no desire for you to pee in a bowl for me.  If you are looking for a Daddy, I can be very loving and leave the dungeon gear alone.  If you think this is a squicky type of role playing, you never have to wear pigtails for me.Now, some will wonder how I can be a Dom and be so accomodating.  Two reasons -- First, I like variety.  Secondly, I want to have fun, push boundaries, take you on a journey, make you respond.  As I say in other journal entries here, how I achieve that is secondary.

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