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Ok all of the below is still pertinent. But mainly looking for someone for myself now. Prefer
Hetero Male Dominant, 48,  Evansville, Indiana
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 Dominant Male



 5' 11"

 375 lbs





Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

A Poly Household

Ok all of the below is still pertinent. But mainly looking for someone for myself now. Preferably a BBW with heavy masochistic tendencies. Who considers herself a dirty nasty slutty whore. One who is not only open to. But wanting to explore the darker and edgier aspects of both sex and this lifestyle. I am a sadist who loves to torture a willing victim. And that torture is usually sexual in nature. I also have become interested in both private and public humiliation. Be it forcing a woman to cum out in public, or something simple as flashing someone. To wearing revealing clothing. Cuckqueaning has also began to be an interest as well.

I know these are not for everyone.

I am very experienced in impact play. In all its various s, some rope work. Mainly breast bondage. As well as knife play, some fire play, and different medical play. I also have a high interest in doing cuttings and blood inkings. Along with micro branding(cell popping).

Again I realize many are...adverse to these things. And may not be for the faint of heart. But for those who want to be pushed, those that want to explore their limits. Those wanting to step out on the edge....

Message me and we can see what may come....

Ok first off I am married, second I do in fact have a collared slave. No they are not the same My wife and I have both an open and a poly marriage. That is why I have a collared slave( she is also married). Both of our spouses know and support us in our relationship. If poly is something you dont want or do not approve of please just pass me by.

I am looking for a female slave, someone kinda local to me. Both my wife and slave like the idea of me having someone closer than my slave is ( she lives two hours away, not that great a distance. But when you factor in time change, work schedules, family get the So someone close, say within 50-75 miles of Evansville.

I prefer a more buxom type woman,voluptuous. A woman with curves, a BBW. Im a big guy so I dont want to worry about putting my arms around a woman. I would prefer anexperienced woman. Both in life and within the lifestyle. Not to say the right woman wouldnt be worth training in the things I like and desire.

I along with my wife have been members of our local community for over 10 years. In fact I can provide references to both who I am and my experience. We have both held leadership positions within the community. We are members of various groups and attend regional events as well. Mostnotably GLLA up in Indianapolis.

My slave and I have been together for over 5 years now. The last 3 years as Master and slave. We also try to attend events and parties when we can. We are a committed couple both inside and out of the lifestyle. In fact I call her husband my friend because he is. Plus she knows she can contact my wife whenever she feels the need to.

I would expect anyone I get involved with to be able to do the same !!!

Im sure there is a lot more I have failed to mention. If you have any questions please feel free to contact me.

I have a variety of interests both within the lifestyle and outside of it. Please feel free to ask about them if you wish.

About me...well, I hold a full time job ( nights), Im casual in both dress and manner. Im a big guy, and for that matter, If that is a problem, feel free to look elsewhere.

Some of the authors I like are as follows.... Laurell K. Hamilton, Sherrilyn Kenyon, J.D. Robb(aka Nora Roberts), David Webber, John Ringo, Vince Flynn, James Rollins, Patricia Briggs, Christine Warren, David Sherman and W.E.B. Griffen. Basically I like action, scifi, paranormalfantasy, vampires, werewolves and things like that.

My musical interests vary a great deal depending on what mood Im in at the time. Everything from Hard Rock to Classical. Though I do draw the line at most (but not all) Rap and Punk. I guess you might say Im pretty much a child of both the 70s and the 80s....and yes I do remember when the BeeGees were!


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4/11/2018 6:07:24 PM
So I just happened to see that it has been a number of years since I posted anything here. I am finding it very encouraging that for whatever reason. I am getting people looking at my profile again here. Granted not getting any messages. But a few. It is good to be able to exchange messages with other people again. Though I know some women look at this and probably call bullshit. It is as true as I can make it. And I know some will say "oh he's married and has a slave too". He doesn't need another submissive or slave in his life. Or that I'm trying to form a stable or something. I'm really not. But I will admit to being lonely at times. And would like to play more than I currently do. Plus there is the whole night shift thing too. I'm up while most are asleep. It is nice to receive a message at night. It's sort of a pick me up while at work. And then there are the women who don't wish to be involved with a married man. Or are looking for a monogamous relationship. Which is fine. I think that is why I would almost prefer to be someone's secondary. I know of a master up in Chicago. That is all he has. All of his submissive and slaves all have primary relationships. That gives him a variety of women to play with and be involved in with. And while Iam really not looking for a "hook up". And I doubt that anyone is going to want to meet me for a beat and Arranging to find someone at an event (Spanksgiving, Winter Wickedness, or COPE) for my slave and I to play with is not out of the question by any means. Likewise if you are interested in playing with a very kinky couple please feel free to message me. While I don't have pics of my slave on here. There are sites that do. Fet or tristatexxx . She like myself is a bigger person. If that's not your thing so be it. So I hope to see and hear from more of you....

8/11/2011 1:41:26 AM

Ok I just deleted all the old posts I had here. I was starting to think they were a bit to negative. Granted we get a bit frustrated at times. Ok let me rephrase that I get a bit frustrated at times. Charlie seems to be bunches of messages with out even being I know women get the majority of messages on here. And I understand why. I also understand that most are looking for just one person. Wether it be a man or woman, and couples are usually a second or third choice. But what I would really like to know is why the looks we do get here are usually from Dominants. Be it male or female. That one I don't understand at I don't know if they are simply looking at the pictures we have posted or actually reading our profile. We thought if we put up a nice detailed profile and pictures of ourselves we might actually convince a few people that we are indeed real. And are active. Case in point we are going to GLLA later on this week. Will be leaving early(way early) Friday morning. And returning Sunday afternoon or evening.


Maybe CM has just gotten too bad of a rep within this lifestyle. Too many players and wanna bes and cheats and such.


I do know we met a couple last weekend who we will probablly end up mentoring if nothing else. And that's good. I have always believed that you should help new people out as much as you can. And not treat them like "fresh meat" as it were. We have met people like that in the past and once they found out that we actually know things we never hear from them


Anyway maybe someone will see this and read it and then contact

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