I have been on here for some years and have talked with many interesting peope. As I see it, the whole D/s dynamic revolves round two people setting up their own rules, boundaries and limitations.  These are mutually agreed, with the so called  sub element dictating her boundaries and limits. It would therefore appear to be an oxymoron to call that person sub as they are very much in control of the rules. The so called Dom works within the framework of the subs desires whilst trying to push / expand those limits. It would therefore appear to be a mutual agreement from which each side derives pleasure from the other, based on each individual couples sexual and other desires and the titles Dom and sub are redundant.  

Discuss..

I am an alpha male with dominant tendancies who would like to find an intelligent woman with matching and complimentary submissive tendancies for mutual enjoyment, fun and very kinky sex.

Angus.  xx