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UPDATE 817 So its been a year and still cancer free.... crossing my fingers the news keeps coming this way still another year of intense screening but I am feeling this may be gone at least for a few years. Anyway life continues... looking to retire in the near future an it looks like Nevada may become my new home after spending a few weeks in the heat of summer it really is not as bad as I thought it would be. So looking at housing and have narrowed my search to new home less maintenance ) we will see.... I think I will try again to see if there is someone on this site that would match up but it does not look to be promising after again looking over the many profiles. I hopping to find someone that has balance between this life style and the vanilla world and has their life together as I do (I know we all bring some scares and baggage with the years we have been on this planet) but some people are just in complete fantasy land and maybe that is only what is on this site. OK Enough ranting!! good luck to the real people on here looking for their own needle in a haystack whatever it is!!!

UPDATE 1016 I suddenly left this site about six months ago after receiving life altering news with a serious health issue that has made me rethink where and what I want to do going forward. I apologizes to the people I was in communication with when I fell off the end of the earth. Going forward I will still be on this site but life over the last few months has taught me that I want a connection with someone so I am back dating in the vanilla world dont get me wrong I would love to find a partner that also likes Ds but with the clock ticking I need to cast my net wide and far for that connection. Good luck and Good health to all!!

I am looking for a LTR not just here for play, so I am back for another try.....I have over the years found some honest and sincere people on this site......but I do know there are also many flakes here.

What I looking for........

Is someone I can connect with both in the vanilla world and the Ds side of things. On my vanilla side of life...... I like to go to concerts, travel, camp, ride dirt bikes, hiking,going out and enjoying a good meal, or just hang around the house. I currently have a dog (that would be the profile picture of her being the princess she is) and a daughter out of state at college. On the the Ds side....... I am not out in the community and I am not open to my family or friends......... if you are that is okay with me but know I am not. If this will be a problem with you then we will not be a match. That is why I will not post my picture for all to see but gladly send one on request. For further insights I have fill out some of my interests on this profile check lists.

I am looking for a woman within my age range plus or minus 10 years since I like to be able to talk to someone that has had grown up through the same decades with the same life experiences to share. I would like to find a LTR loving relationship with the Ds mixed in but I am open to what ever may come along and see where it takes us. Within a few years I plan on retiring and will be able to relocate almost anywhere so I am okay with long distant as long as there is an eventual future with us together.

I maybe a rarity on this site but I am a guy that does have to have a connection before we go into a full blown relationship............ another words I will not be someones sub or slave just because you say your a Dominant and I do believe in mutual respect for each other in what ever relationship that develops. If any of this sounds good lets talk..... and see if we have common wants and needs and go from there...... I really do not want to go back to the fully vanilla world of dating..... I much rather find to whole package!!!!