I'm more into the erotic side of BDSM, appreciating that the mental and emotional aspects of this sort of relationship greatly enhance the physical.  As a true Dom/Master, I appreciate that your submission is a gift to be cherished.  My sub/slave should be used and used well, but not abused.  Yes, training and play do involve some measure of pain; but only enough to get the point across or allow her to enjoy that mind-space of vulnerability and complete surrender.  I, as Master, am responsible for your well-being; mental, emotional, and physical.  True submission by you is greatly appreciated.  Photo available when mutual interest is established.