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Friends:
Adventurous, intelligent women who are unabashedly drawn to real time, hands on submission - who dream about serving and servicing a true Master - are of specific interest and appeal to Me.



One immediate caveat, ladies. You must be submissive when the door closes behind us . . . within the prescribed boundaries and limitations, I do not countenance disobedience, whining or complaining. That is what a ball gag is for . . . and I have several.



Having established that fundamental precept, when a woman stands in front of Me, and when our eyes lock as she take her clothes off, the primal excitement makes for an amazingly arousing moment, minutes, and, yes, often hours.



It has been My experience it begins when a prospective submissive takes a deep breath- and then takes the leap of faith by opening a sustained dialogue with a prospective Master as a starting point. It is thus much less daunting when it is time (usually a week or so, not months of endless emails), when we segue into real time bdsm.



When that special moment arrives that she has fantasized about, her breathing is deeper and faster. When she is told to take her clothes off - and when she kneels, naked, taking the collar for the first time - she may be nervous, but she is ready. Being properly prepared for that transporting moment by a Master with the experience and expertise to truly know what He is doing really does make a significant difference (so I am ined).



As a very experienced Master, I ascribe to the more traditional SSC precept - that all bdsm needs to be safe, sane and consensual. The more contemporary RACK (risk aware consensual kink) gives Me pause, quite frankly. It embraces acts and activities that are health or safety risks, as long as both (or more) partners are cognizant of the risk(s) assumed. That is simply not an intelligent approach, so that is not what you can expect from Me as your Master.



The heightened anticipation and trepidation should be inextricably intertwined with a genuine excitement with what is about to happen, not from fear of permanent health impairment. That is the quintessential bdsm recipe that in todays environment is too often overlooked or not understood.



If you know that the yearning is growing deeper, that the necessity of serving a confident (but not arrogant), capable (but safe, sane and consensual) and intelligent (but down to earth) Master is becoming an urgent part of your life, we should talk. I will respond to all reasonable communications that are respectful and constructive.














12/11/2017 10:07:26 AM
11 December 2017

What an evening with Me might be like . . . or at the least, how it might begin.

If you have been a good girl, that is.

It might begin with dinner at a fine restaurant.
It might segue from vanilla to not so much, as I lean forward across the table . . .
As you turn so that I can whisper in your ear:
"Reach under the table and take the note to the ladies room."

You feel the flush as you comply, waiting for me to nod before your hand meets mine under the table.  You walk deliberately to the ladies room, open a stall, and you realize your hands are shaking as you open and then read the note:

"Remove your panties, ball them in your hand, and return to the table."

You might realize as you approach the table that your breathing has deepened and  quickened; your pulse is racing, and you might feel the advent of moisture in places.  

You might notice the smile on My face is confident as you sit down, and as you shift in your seat awaiting further instruction(s), you realize your mind has already moved, your desire has become an almost visible presence . . . when you see Me call for the check, and as I fix a direct gaze in your direction, you might realize the evening has only just begun . . .



9/26/2017 11:30:07 AM
September 2017

To answer the question proactivel, I am not specifically seeking a live in, 24/7 relationship.  In fact, I am less "seeking" and more "available" for the Right Fit within a high quality bdsm construct.  The fundamentals for this are summarized below:

    -  the prospective submissive is honestly interested in exploring high quality bdsm
    -  she is stable emotionally and psychologically fit
    -  she is educated sufficiently to respond to sophisticated direction and interaction.
    -  she is physically fit (at least reasonably so) and takes care of herself
    -  she has a high sex drive, or at the least, relishes repeated climaxes
    -  she can schedule two to three hours to serve Me at least twice a month
    -  she is an attentive, willing student


Emmaswhore
 
 Age: 21
 Canada, Canada