Collarspace

Unlike other people using this site I have not always known I was a Dominant. I was not tying my playmates up with rope when I was 5 years old and spanking my teddybears. I got interested in BDSM because I had a girlfriend in college who had some experience, and she took me on my first trip down the rabbit hole. As I get older my knowledge and experience grow and Ive realized I enjoy certain elements of the role.

1. I enjoy controlling a woman and deciding what happens to her or what is done to her.

2. I enjoy sexual play in public places - especially if there is an audience of strangers watching.

3. I enjoy parading a woman in front of others and displaying her body to others the way that I might show off a fancy car or a new toy.

4. I enjoy spanking and disciplining a woman and the way in which punishment play magnifies the intensity of sexual intimacy.

5. And I love it when my woman calls me Daddy - even if the woman is my age.

On the non-sexual side I am a physically fit, 41 year old man. I run a small company in China. I enjoy intellectual pursuits especially politics, human sexuality and board games. I have an active lifestyle and some really fantastic friends. Life is good.

I have no desire to be sexually active with a woman unless theres also some non-sexual chemistry. So, it works for me if youre also a person who enjoys a life of the mind and is oriented towards a life spent helping others (or somehow furthering the cause). Its important to me that a sub be emotionally confident.

Ultimately what Im looking for is a long term relationship with one woman who is also drawn to the submissive role and is sexually open-minded and non-judgmental. I like to have sex as much as the next person, but I also believe that if theres long term potential we ought to wait a little while before being intimate.

Im open to most types of women, but based on past experience it would help if you are physically fit, in your late-twenties to mid-thirties and if you are politically liberal. Opposites theoretically attract, but I am more interested in a bird of the same feather.

If you respond to my profile and it seems to me that were compatible Ill send you a picture of myself. And I expect you to follow suit.