A clean-cut, tall & husky, non-smoking, unpretentious, 100%-straight white dude who enjoys women, bondage and playing rough.
I'm 100% sensualist and not into the whole Gorean trip, rules, formalities or protocol. I like both the physical side of bondage & "punishment" and the mental. Steel bondage - handcuffs, padlocks & chains, that sort of thing - is a particular favorite.
Looking for a good woman to share those desires with, preferably a strong, uppity, feisty, rebellious bitch who's not easily controlled. Somebody interesting and challenging. Certainly not an obsequious doormat. What's the point of being dominant if submission comes automatically and you don't have to earn it? Might as well "dominate" a garden gnome.
Lately, I've been feeling the urge to step it up a notch and get in touch with my inner sadist. If you're titillated by the idea of being bound and punished, and you like the idea of both your body and your mind being tormented, I could be your man. I'm yearning to explore the darker side of human psychology, to see how the mind responds when pushed to the limit. (the body, too, but anybody can do that)
Up to & including "rape" role-play scenes, if you're inclined to risk total submission.
I look OK. Just OK. Not GQ, but neither do puppies and small children flee upon sight. I like using blindfolds because they lead to bigger & better orgasms, not because it's essential to conceal my looks to prevent my partner from running screaming into the night. I haven't posted a picture here because I don't want my boss or clients to know, but I'll be happy to send you one privately upon request.
note: that's "send you one privately", not "upload one onto collarme.com, naively hoping & praying their privacy & security measures are adequate."
I'm looking for an ongoing part-time real-time get-together. Not a big fan of one-time things; (though I can occasionally be persuaded) absolutely not interested in spending more time with my computer. I do not e-chat ... period.
And while I want to explore all these dark corners of the human psyche, I'm not clueless. I know it'll take time to evolve and I'm willing to spend the time. I ain't exactly an impetuous nineteen-year-old any more.
I'm about 80% Dom, 10% switch. (I can set that aside if you're 100% sub)
College grad, respectable profession, (protector of the public health & safety) never married, no kids.
Southeastern Michigan/southwestern Ontario/northwestern Ohio only. You must either live here, (southeastern Oakland County) travel here, be open to relocating here, or it's just not going to happen. Open to the idea of a live-in, or more, after an appropriate amount of getting-acquainted time. (months, not minutes)
Update: I'm not wealthy, but I do have an income, a vehicle and a residence of my own; I can travel or host. Apparently, that actually doesn't go without saying here. Who'd'a thunk it?
Completely safe, sane & consensual, (or RACK if you prefer; they mean about the same thing) ddddf, big fan of safewords and safecalls. While I'm not clueless enough to post a picture of myself here, I do encourage pictures of me and my house being part of your safecall.
I have a private computer in a private house and usually don't bother to log out after each visit. That leads to the illusion that I'm on this site a lot more frequently than I really am. If you don't hear back from me immediately, be patient and don't fret. I answer every e-mail that seems genuine.