Like most, I find these are rarely read, and if so only at a cursory level.
I do prefer my women have intelligence and be well read, it makes for better conversation. This is not about always being on.
To me, it makes no difference if you are new or experienced. Each relationship is defined differently. There is no one size fits all. If you think there is, then you have missed something.
I do enjoy pushing someone to her limits.
Looking for subs or slaves who are looking.
I also enjoy sharing thoughts and ideas on the topic. I will entertain most scenarios.