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I have always been dominant in my sexual dealings with women, but Ive decided to enter the lifestyle more fully and embrace life as a full-on, avowed Dominant. I am seeking a submissive woman to train and to love.

I see Ds in a different way from many Doms. Many (most?) see the Ds relationship as one where the sub serves the needs of the Dom. I think its the other way round the job of a Dom is to discover the needs, dreams, and hidden desires of his sub, and then fulfill those needs

Does she need humiliation and king? Her Dom will find creative ways to humiliate her, and excuses to k her.

Is she a masochist? Her Dom will become a skilled sadist.

Does forced nudity drive her wild with lust? Then she will be nude whenever possible, except when being punished.

Do not confuse this with allowing the sub to top from the bottom. The Dom is in charge he calls the shots and demands obedience and proper behavior from his sub, within pre-arranged (hopefully contractual) guidelines. But because he loves her, because he cares deeply for her, and because, quite frankly, it is massively erotic to watch a sub writhe in orgasmic bliss and know that YOU, her Master, caused that bliss, he serves her needs and helps her fulfill all of her submissive fantasies.

Thus, my philosophy on the Ds lifestyle. Let mo know what you think. Ill write more once Im more familiar with the site.