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Hello!!
I have several sides
Little
submissive
Sadist
Masochist
Babygirl

I love having all these sides and its interesting how they sometimes lap over.
Say I am at a party for littles, my little age is 4, and I am happily doing whaterver project the leaders ahave planned. Some of the other littles start getting out of control. I will still be in little mode but I will get bossy dominant and tell them to behave. Or one of the leaders is talking and some littles are talking to each and not paying attention. I will whisper to them to be quiet and pay attention.
I am naturally dominant but I actually prefer being in the submissive role. I have been in vanilla dominant positions most of my life and I am ready to let someone direct me. To take charge and encourage me to be a better me. But they must also be nurturing and caring. Have a sense of humor but also be serious when needed. Be fun but also be firm when I start misbehaving.
I do not need or want someone who is going to start ignoring me when I do something wrong. The quiet treatment will not work with me. It will make me disrespect you. It is emotional abuse. Been there, done that. It does not turn me or make me want to be with you.
So, back to my sides. Yes, I am a masochist but not a pain slut. I take the pain as a sign of my submission. I am, however, a little bit of sadist. Let me get someone on a cross and you will see me smiling and laughing instead of serious. I have also been known to be in little mode and, given the opportunity to play someone, I have a great time.
What am I looking for? Someone who can deal with all my sides and not feel threatened by any of them.