Collarspace

little.
submissive.
masochist.

Im L. I am fairly new to the OKC BDSM community. Ive been interested in some or another of BDSM for a bit over 5 years now or so. When I was first exploring the lifestyle I found myself really enjoying pet play. Since then Ive discovered that Im a lot more of a little than a kitten. Little space is my happy place. I love this quote

Being a little is far deeper than the things a person engaged in, and is the core of someones personality, perception of the general world, response and reaction capabilities, and self-image. - littlespaceonline
Ive definitely discovered some other things I like so far. I love being tied up, so far my favorite rope is hemp. I want to learn to tie even though I dont think I have much interest in being a rope top. I still think it is a good thing to learn.

Im a masochist. Impact play is definitely something I enjoy. Im super into being ked, slapped, thrown around, general roughness.. you get the idea. Also, being put in my place when Im bratty is the best. 3

I get super turned on by the sight, smell, and taste of blood.

If youre curious, look at my fetish list to see more things Im into. Plus Im always up for trying something new!

Vanilla Me
I grew up in Norman and currently live out in the country not far from Norman. I am a trans woman. I have some tattoos and piercings, planning on many more when funds allow. I adore body modification.

I have anxiety so I can definitely be a bit awkward at times.

I have a bad relationship with my body and its something Ive been working on for a long time. Ive never had much confidence. Im trying my best to get healthy and have a positive body image. I dont smoke, do drugs, or drink much (Im a social drinker). 420 friendly, but I dont play while high. Ive been a vegetarian for over 10 years now.

I am a homoromantic bisexual. For those who dont know what that means, I can develop romantic feelings for women but not men, most of the time. As far as sexual attraction, that can happen with anyone regardless of their gender personally.

WhatWho I am looking for currently
Friends within the community
Knowledge regarding nearly anything BDSM or CGl
Experience Education
Fun lifestyle related events
Dom(me)Sadist play partners
MommyDomme
I really value honesty and compassion in people. If you have those two traits, we will get along just fine.

Outside of a serious relationship I will only play at events unless I know you well.

Not into hookups.