Looking for someone special- Submissive, Sweet, Caring or someone who is learning more about who they are and wanting to explore this lifestyle. A bit about me Grew up in Cali and worked for the forest service for many years. I have many jumps out of a perfectly good plane and loved all but one of them. Do not want a one night thing, more like a night after night . Having a click is a must!! I am not looking for a one time hook up. IF you are exploring BDSM then yes! I found this lifestyle is a perfect fit for me. I grew up Catholic and was married for 11 years. Marriage was very vanilla and reserve as that is the way I thought it should be. Only after I found my ex sleeping with my neighbor when I went to my fire shifts did i realize I was not living. Looking for someone that gives me that Grrrr factor for sure and someone who wants to chat and see if there is a spark! I am ok with a courting period and do not expect a meeting minutes after we talk. I do appreciate people that are blunt and open. Just say how it is. If someone likes it great- If not the can **** off!. That way you always know where you stand. If you want to know more. please send me a hello or something so I know you exist!