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Thank you for taking the time to view my profile. I wont delve into the likes and dislikes, you can always scroll down to view those. I believe in honesty, communication, respect. These are the cornerstones of any relationship, Ds or otherwise. I believe in no judgments. People are who they are for a reason, and it is not my place to judge them on their beliefs, kinks, orientation or gender identity. In my years in the lifestyle, I have come to believe a true 247 relationship can never exist just based on society in general however some or fashion can transcend into vanilla society without scaring the straights.

I can be quite sadistic, and yet quite caring. I love everything about the lifestyle...well, almost everything. I believe in SSC vs RACK, and am adamant about aftercare. I always use safewords until sufficient trust is built. Hard limits are always respected, and soft limits pushed.

What I am seeking are friends first and foremost. One can never have enough friends, especially when it comes to the lifestyle! Dating, having fun, learning about one another and eventually, should the right girl come across my path, a long term relationship. The girl I am seeking is ideally a submissive with slave tendencies, exceedingly nonjudgmental and between 35 and 50 years of age. Other ages would be considered, but those are just my preference. If you are out of state it probably wont work for a relationship, but everything is open for negotiation.

No, I am not the one your mother warned you about, but I am the one she was afraid to mention! So if something you read piques your interest, something in the interests calls to you, drop me note.