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I am a Dominant Woman. I like to have things My way. I have been involved in BDSM and the BDSM community - live and in person - for some twenty years now. I have explored endlessly and now identify as a Leather Woman, primarily as a Dominant. I do not play online. I use online as an avenue for meeting people who might become new friends and only then subs or slaves of Mine. Online is useful for communication and meeting people, yes. However, for me, it is only a means to an end. The end is meeting in person face to face.

CUE DRUM ROLL AND THEN THERE IS THE PANDEMIC...

Naturally I am even more selective about meeting in person. When we do it will be at a public place with plenty of space for social distancing and we will both be wearing masks.

I am into manners and courtesy. I am Old School in many ways but open minded. I really am retired Teacher its in my blood. Be polite Be respectful.

Please DO make an effort to write well. Spelling and grammar mistakes and the like are so irritating. They actually make me cringe when I see them.

I do not play with strangers. I play with friends. Nothing much happens in Ds without knowledge of each other. The real power and the deep intimacy, and highs, comes from that. Nothing worthwhile comes without communication clear, direct, and honest.

I am not in this for the sex. There is no hook up here for you. Move along. Please.

I am not into long distance relationships. I do not travel to meet. Please be able to travel to Me. I live in near the 10 between the 57 and 15 freeways, in San Bernardino County.

I do not smoke tobacco and cannot stand it, cigarettes or anything so please NO tobacco smokers. I smoke cannabis for medical and recreational reasons. I do not drink. I do not care if YOU do but not around me. No drug abuse.

Message me here if anything here sparks your interest. I look forward to hearing from you.

MsMara or Maam (yes there is supposed to be an apostrophe in there)
PS I do NOT like to be called Mistress nor Miss