Collarspace

I really just observe. Given severe social anxiety (among other issues), I just dont have the confidence to reach out to people proactively here, and dont really have any points in particular that stand out enough for people to try to proactively connect with me. Not to say I wouldnt love to meet someone, but Im not really a good fit for the typical A personalities here. I tend to need someone willing to reach out to me, then lead the conversation for a while before things click for me which is really hard to find.

Ultimately, I love BDSM. It provides a sensory experience and a structure that I enjoy. I love submission, I love bondage, I love controlling and pushing the boundaries of the senses. I have a lot of interests, and although I lean toward the submissive side I do switch. It just takes me a while to get comfortable with the verbal part of being dominant so it has to be through actions initially. That kind of goes both ways though as I am more comfortable just doing something than speaking about doing something.