Collarspace

Ive been in the kinkbdsm space for a while however always on and off. Have drifted in and out of vanilla relationships and then suppressed my kinky desires.

Im articulate, well travelled, educated and certainly not a slob. I like doing sports and looking after myself. I enjoy being outdoors and hiking, cycling, and generally being active.

Soooo... why am I here. Well I enjoy kink and I enjoy domination in a very specific context. I dont like extremes or massive rubber outfits or anything. But what I do enjoy is indulging in the things that a submissive has thought about but never dared explore... something she may have thought of but never expressed. That thing that turns her on... and shes a little ashamed by it but she cant quite help herself.

I like an intelligent and accomplished woman that has a flip-side to her personality. A vulnerable, naughty, kinky, perhaps slutty side shes always wanted to reveal but never quite had the courage or the right situation. I find that incredible sexy... being part of that experience that is unique and brave and different. This is what I mean but intelligent humiliation.

It can truly be something really simple as being naked while the dominant is dressed... having to ask for something... perhaps having to beg... humiliation really isnt excessive or extreme. Its purely down to the context and what limitations and appeals the person experiencing it has. Find out what this is... and exploring that is where my interest lies.