Moved to Florida in 2022 but still spending time in Illinois monthly for work

Experienced 20 years in Ds, mature, selective dominant patiently seeking a select submissive to mentor and train to reach thier potential and new heights.

While my profile name is a definite reference to the movie its a tongue and cheek jab at it too ;-)  I was into BDSM years before the movie was out.

The difference between me and the book is Christian Grey was a fictional character and, I am real. I flew heliopters and own my own businesses.

BDSM enhances my life and my experiences will enhance the right sub. Im approachable, easy going, humorous and well balanced...but, Im also a Dom and seek that control sexually. Im not looking to control your entire life just enhance what you seek your Dom to do.