Greetings,

This has been a journey.  Beginning with wanting to be the captured cowboy when my friends played westerns as a kid.  Even then, i would defer and cater to the more in charge kids.

In high school and college,  i excelled academically but still found myself deferring and accommodating to the more masculine and dominant male personalities. Inside i knew I was more a butler, than a Lord of the Manor type. Some of us are born to serve and be subservient. Others know they are born from better stock and meant to be pampered and waited on.  I am wired the way i am wired.

Began experimenting with domination in my early 30s with other men. Had some good experiences.  Had some not so great ones. Never had the honor to have a long term, extended situation with a dominant man. My dating has sadly always been vanilla.

Have dabbled enough. Thought about what i have wanted for far too long. Need to find a confident, take charge, masculine man who might want an obedient, hard working, brainy submissive. And yes, it seems fair to describe it as a genuine need at this stage of my life.

Thank you for visiting and reading my profile. 

Revised: April 22, 2022