As I grow older, I'm less captivated by people and notice more selfishness. More and more, I see demands for full sacrifice in exchange for mediocre experiences based around their needs only. Everyone is so concerned about what they want, but not what they can provide. Regardless of your position, demeanor, and quality of life there's always an exchange.

In my vanilla life I’m a passionate artist, pc gamer, and an aging goth. I love scifi, anime, and cooking. Always looking for others with shared interests. On the other side I adore orgasm control, breastmilk, and mental bondage. I have Daddy Dom tendancies, but I'm multi faceted and have a wide arrary of interests. I do have a strict set of rules and protocols that will be enforced. I find great connections can develop over time, but that doesn’t mean things will last long enough to find out. Without a mental connection, my interest will wane.

I’m not active in the scene, it’s not something that appeals to me much. I prefer a goth event much more, it's all about the music. I’m not a private person, but I am a bit more of a loner and isolationist now. I come off as quiet and passive, typically because I tend to find most people uninteresting, but I am quite intense when I do.

If you contact me, send a clear headshot of yourself in your first email if you do not have one on your profile. I want to see your face clearly. Introduce yourself properly, tell me a bit about yourself, why you are contacting me and know how to write a proper message. This is not a text message to a friend.

Do not expect a reply if you cannot follow these directions. The way you contact me and what you say reflect heavily on you.