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I couldnt update my old profile (wakingupred) so I gave in and created a new one.

I have been in the lifestyle on and off for most of my adult life, exploring BDSM, Kink, and just my overall slutty nature so sufficed to say, Im definitely not a newbie.

Ive had casual play partners and long term 247 and I definitely prefer long term. That is where the meat and bones are, that is where the magic happens. The trust builds and walls crumble and next thing you know, youre comfortable sharing and growing together.

I do tend to fight what I know I need, not really sure why but fair warning, Im a challenge. This life is in my blood though and lets face it, once youve had a taste and liked it youre hooked. So here we go...

Im looking for a Dominant man 38-55, not married, who is good at life and equally good at enjoying it. A Dom who takes pride in his appearance and likes to be active. Strong and capable but kind and humble at the same time. A man who knows when to be gentle and snugly and when to push and expand boundaries. I believe a stern look and a steady voice can be just as binding as rope or shackles.

Outside the bedroom I fall more in line with traditional stereotypes, I am a woman whos strong enough and independent enough to take care of myself, but old school enough that I prefer to differ to my Dom as the head of the household.

Short term I want a partner that I can get to know, enjoy spending time with and explore our kinks together and see if they mesh. Long term I want a relationship full of mutual respect and honest communication free of judgement so we can grow together.

I need structure and rules in my life even if I fight them occasionally. Knowing where I stand and what is expected of me is extremely important. Communication and openness creates an environment where I can feel free to explore and try new things.

Im picky as fuck but then we all should be! I am an equally strong and intelligent woman with a lot to give. I am a professional woman with various interests and hobbies who loves good conversation, great music and has a zest for life.

Poly is never going to work for me so if you arent looking for your special someONE then Im not your girl.

Im looking for local but am willing to consider other states but not looking for just some online romance.

I will not accept respond unless you have a picture of yourself or attach one! This does not include your dick!

I have several more pics on my fet life page, wakingupred.

-- I am extremely liberal in my politics and life choices i.e abortion, birth control, lgbtq rights and separation of church and state. I pretty much ditest all organized religions and am an avid gun hater so if any of that bothers you we wont be a match.