I've known most of my life what I need, and I've been putting it into practice for over a decade now. I am not looking for a kinky hookup, your nudes, a few stories about what you've done, or a long discussion of fantasy that slowly leads to something vanilla. I want to own a woman so deeply that it transforms her.

My ideal relationship will include mental and physical training, carving away the behavior which does not serve me and building up a woman into a paragon of slavery. I will hurt her, she will serve me, and I will put her beneath me in every way that matters. My primary kinks are degradation, pain, and behavior modification. I enjoy being physically involved in my sadism: biting, grappling, punching, spanking bare handed rather than a paddle. I use a combination of operant conditioning, mindfucks, and hypnosis (particularly Relyfe programming) to adjust behavior. I enjoy free use and blanket consent, but those are long term targets.

For those with their own goals, I can work with them and help to achieve them. I respect boundaries and I understand consent. I like to do some fucked up shit that needs a clear, enthusiastic "yes" before anything else. 

I am a pagan and a shamanic practitioner. I love gardening and want to get into homesteading. I currently work nights.

DPF