Collarspace

Hi

As an introduction I am a semi-retired hetero and gentleman Dom.

I am 56 years old, enjoy life, and wish to share the wonders I have discovered, places I have travelled to, and the predilections that I have with someone special enough to recognize the value of what the above means.

The best way I know how to describe the dynamic that has brought me in search and here again are these two deions.

We are, the Dom and sub, ever so much like the planets that circle over our heads. Eternally in orbit of one another, we circle, until one day the planets align. When that occurs the gravitational pull of who and what we are is so strong that it receeds the inhibitions of ourselves exposing a truth as we are pulled ever faster to the other.

So is it with the planets over our heads and so too with us always circling the other in search until one day we find the other and align.

Perhaps another way to view the dynamic is this.

Consider yourself, your body and soul, a kelidescope, sitting undiscovered and on a shelf. Inside the cylinder of you are all these beautiful fragments of colors. Each represents a pice of who and what you are. There is love, loyalty, sensuality, lust, hope, joy, stubborness, intelligence, and the list goes on. Each piece of colorful shard is akimbo. Until one day a pair of warm guiding hands find you. Takes that keliedescope and cylider of you, and by degrees twists it watching those shards and fragments fall into place until the most beautiful Rose window of who you are is discovered. With admiration and joy he watches the masterpiece of you. And then he does it again...and again...and again.

What I seek is a reflection of what you need. Understanding, loyalty, trust, and a true artisan of the dynamic. This is as much about the mind and soul as it is about the body.

This dynamic is about who you are and not what others wish you to be.

And so I search...occasionally finding a partial fit but never the ever long lasting partner who enjoys watching the sun set in her lap over a cocktail at perch point or simply a good fuck under direction.

To complete your view I stand 59, weigh 180 pounds, and am longer in leg than I am in waist. I have short air, a bit thinning, hazel eyes, and long fingers and even a longer...imagination ).

I work out twice a week and travel as much usually from CT to Santa Monica but London and Paris as well as Chicago seem to be on my travels yearly.

I like to write, have published, take photos, and collect art (sculptures) and even a classic car on occasion.

Recently Ive taken to jeep expeditions, and have had built an outstanding jeep and trailer to spec. There is a bit of an adventurer in me.

What I seek is a girl of quality, loyalty, adventure, who likes to travel, and is as comfortable in a pair of jeans as she is in a Nina Ricci cocktail dress. A girl who would like to have a child in the future and is as passionate about life as I am and the wonders that it holds.

So why am I here?

Because this is a place that filters desires to those who dont shield who they are or at least to much. This is a place that sometimes has the destiny of a sub that aligns to a Dom.

Having been a Dom for as long as memory stretches this is a real time site that may just have a treasure waiting to be discovered.

On a last note I do not have a photo and will not as I still am semi active as a professional and have managed to keep my proclivities discreet. I expect the same with you as well. Discretion.

I look forward to reading your response and thank you for taking the time to know me.

Best,

BK