Collarspace

I am an experienced Dom in search of a partner to serve me and satisfy my needs. I have been involved in bdsm for around 18 years and have had a few subs and owned a few slaves in that time. I drift towards vanilla relationships from time to time but dont find them as satisfying and always go back. I am looking for something that would lead to long term, but I cant foresee the future so will take it as see where it leads.
I am extremely kinky and perverted, but am also very private. This relationship will be outwardly vanilla looking but anything but behind closed doors.
I am strict, demanding, enjoy being rough and having my way.
What I am looking for?
A woman that knows her place and role in a relationship. Someone that has a deep need to please her man, regardless of how she feels about it. I dont want just your body, but your mind as well. I want you thinking about me night and day. I want someone that feels that the worst punishment she can receive isnt anything physical, like a caning or belt, but to be told that she has disappointed me. There would be physical discipline but she would feel worse for having let me down.
I am not looking for perfection. Im not perfect (I know, hard to believe coming from a Dom, but true). I am a realist, not a fantasist.
I dont care about your age (although obviously must be legal), race, religion, body size or shape, hair colour etc.
What I do care about is your attitude and willingness to want to serve and please me.
If you are told to do something and wont because of pride, suck it up and leave it at the door.
If I ask you something but you wont answer because you are too embarrassed, get over it.
I dont care how much or how little experience you have, you will be trained to my expectations. I am patient to a point.
When you are with me, my needs and desires come first, second
and third. yours come a distant last (unless they mesh with mine). I may sound harsh but I am not uncaring. As I said, Im a realist. Im not going to tell you to quit your job or disown family etc. Just that when we are together, I am your sole focus.
I will add more to this as I go along.
Hope to hear from those interested and feel like this is what they are missing in their life. I am happy to answer any and all questions you wish to ask.