I have always been a man who knows what I want and know what I like and dont like and I dont have a problem taking it sexually or otherwise. That being said I have a firm belief that BDSM relationships arent all about sex, for me its not just about the kink its not just about having rough sex, spanking a girl or treating her like a dirty little girl she always wanted to be, NO its about power exchange and taking control. Submission is not about sex, submission is about totally giving yourself to your Master for guidance and direction.
