Welcome to my profile. My name is melanie. i have been on here under a few variations of the name xtc but now i have decided to change it to extase which is the French word for ecstasy.

i have been on here for a long time, but have finally decided to make a new profile, with a new name to better suit my new direction within this lifestyle. For a long time i was exploring my dominant side. After a while i decided to explore switching which leads now to my current journey into full submission. Its been one i am enjoying.

That journey lead to my absence the last few years as i have been under contract. i was property for a couple (and their guests) for 2 years as i helped them for that term as a surrogate, birthing 2 children for them. Now that i am freed of my obligations i have come back home and back on here.

ALSO note i am not able to classify myself on here as PANSEXUAL so i am classified as bi, but i am saying so here. If you dont know what it is, there is this lovely thing called Google it


Onto the usual questions

What does this lifestyle mean to me?

This lifestyle means trust. Partnership. It takes time, honestly,communication, chemistry. It always bothered me when people would just dive head first into a collar without knowing the other party at all.


What am i looking for?

i have always loved emotional responses. Humiliation is a big one for me. It creates many responses based on whatever act is being done. For example i have always loved the sound of head shaving total hairlessness. Just the thought of being rendered hairless so everyone will look at you differently makes me blush yet get excited all in the same token. My other interests you can find out if you truly wish to get to know me.


What are my limits?

i am not into any play with feet, permanent marks, blood or financial play.


Will i accept your collar?

Depends if we have spoken for a while, and created some sort or relationship.


Am i currently owned or collared ?

i am not right nor am i truly looking. After a 2 year commitment i am enjoying my freedom while i can. Does not mean i will not talk to potential future opportunities.



These are only a few answers, For all other questions please to PM me. i will try to answer them to the best of my ability.


**ALSO not i will NOT respond to one liners, people asking for money, or people asking for pics right away. AND if you do NOT have a profile picture or have one attached i will more than likely delete without a response.