Having accepted and embraced my true self over the past decade-ish, there's always more to learn, especially when meeting or getting to know others in the lifestyle. I'm currentlly still progressing on my path which has mostly entailed getting more comfortable and familiar with being a gurl in public and social events more often. White at college I dated a couple of girls but it was obvious that my inner sissy was already in the works. At this point, most women obviously consider me 'one of the girls' and depending on the situation, I will defer to a woman who is domineering or whom I may be subordinate to in some way (such as a suppervisor/manager or alpha boss type girl) Fellow Tgirls are ideal for friendship and even a bit of dating if s/he has a dominant side. Fellow sissies who are naturally submissive as I am may also make for good friendships or 'sissy sisters' in the lifestyle that submit to the same Master (or dominant) where punishment or bondage is endured (i.e. being tied or cuffed together, wearing the same ball gag, taking turns being spanked and kept bound together for cuddling in bed and other humiliating (yet secretly desired) activities.

MEN: With that said, it's no wonder an early bi-curious nature has gradually (and fittingly) been shifting more toward real men when it comes to sex. While there's no doubt special RLs (or marriages)exist between women and sissy males, I've focused more on the realisitc fact that as I'm increasingly hit on and flirted with by real men in social settings, I'll become more inclined toward being seduced by the right man who is an alpha but not a creep of course (my experience on networking sites has at least enhanced the feminine voice inside and taught me what real women must deal with and how they perceive guys. As chatty as this sissy has been though, I do believe it possible to find good chemistry with the right man and if the timing is right, after a long evening of music, drinks and fun, I may find myself making out with that handome tall and dark stud, smartly dressed at the bar going through what looked like a business call on his tablet. Perhaps after going on a few dates and spending rather 'intimate' evenings in the bedroom, a longer term Master/sissy type relationship can be embraced as reality.