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Ive had a few. Im ready for whats next and I hope to find the last.

Im tall and by most accounts handsome. Im bright, well-travelled and financially secure.

Im friendly to strangers, I help kittens down from trees and I like to do wonderfully terrible things in bed.

People often seem to write a lot of detailed stuff here about their particular kinks and, while I see the point in that to some degree, for the most part, I dont really get it. Its not that I dont have certain special kinky things that turn me on and drive me wild (dominating a lover in various ways comes to mind) its just that in real life every lover is unique and the things that really work and that excite and gratify come from the two people together. What I think is sexy and what I need feel satisfied and fulfilled comes from my lover rather than from the last bit of porn I watched. To me this seems obvious but looking around this site makes me think a lot of people dont see it that way. Having said all that if we are together, whoever you are - youre probably gonna get tied up.

What I am looking for is impossible to quantify - Im looking for the right chemistry.

Some women want to be kept as a pet or a slave 247. Some want to keep their kink hidden while they pursue their careers and rest are looking for any of a limitless number of different trips. Im up for anything on the continuum if you are the right woman.

There are always exceptions to rules but Id prefer you to be disease and addiction free. Right wing political thinkers need not apply.

Im open to different ages and races. If you are fresh out of high school, finding common ground will be challenging and if you are past childbearing age we wont be able to make any babies and Id kind of like to. But even though I think Id make a good father, this is no rule saying I need to have a kid or that the kid has to be mine so if you are out there, whoever you are, please send me a message.