Naturally submissive, all bottom, needs to learn from a bigger man pref. over 5 ft 9 and over 250lbs. Im pretty new to this, so looking mostly to chat and learn but in the long term something sane and stable. Its hot for me when you want to teach me to please you and satisfy your needs and not mine, and when you want to teach me to be less selfish and to think of your needs instead of mine. For me the sex is less important than the mental aspects of it.