Collarspace

Hello,

Im a traditional old-fashioned, romantic type guy, hoping to date and possibly develop a monogamous long term female led relationship flr with a similar-minded lady. I work full time as a software developer, but also have an interest in the arts (specifically music). I dont drink, smoke or do drugs etc. and would consider myself to be polite, well-mannered, loyal and respectful. Im on this site because I also have a very kinky submissive side which Ive kept hidden all my life, but would love to explore in private with the right person.

Ideally, I would like to meet someone who is an attentive, supportive and loving girlfriend in public - taking walks together, holding hands, going to concerts or theatre, travelling together etc. - someone I genuinely enjoy spending time with. But, when in private, I become her willing servant, her loyal pet, serving without question. I have an interest in chastity because I believe it will help ensure that my focus is always on her pleasure, and that Im not serving her as a way of serving myself. Plus, it would also serve as a constant reminder for me of whos really in charge when were a normal couple in public!)

Although Im very inexperienced in the BDSM world, Im also very serious about meeting someone, and am not one to mess people around. Im open to casual play, but eventually, my aim is to have something more. I have a genuine desire to devote myself completely to the happiness and pleasure of one special woman. Whether that means domestic chores, holding her book for her while she reads, helping her get dressed, sensually worshiping her body, or simply spending time with her, laughing and having fun together, I always want to be there for her. I want to quietly listen and cuddle with her when shes feeling sad, and I want to be the one she can release her anger on when she is feeling cruel and frustrated.

I take immense pleasure in giving pleasure, and although I crave someone who will ultimately take charge and enjoy the power and control, Im also a very sentimental type, seeking the affection, companionship and emotional intimacy of a vanilla relationship. Thank you for your time, and please say hello if any of the above sounds appealing to you!