Collarspace

Hi everyone!

I am recently out of college and now working in San Francisco. In my (mostly non-existent) spare time, I explore this fascinating world and the incredible people in it.

What drew me to the world of kink is an interest in accountability and discipline, primarily through spa nking. I consider myself a pretty accomplished and ambitious person, and it has been helpful and fulfilling to have someone push me towards my goals. Spa nking in particular, within a supportive and caring construct, helps me to be a more awesome version of myself--and is also quite fun!

Although that is where I feel most at home, I have found interest in other kinks too, such as rope (topping and bottoming) and various types of sensation play.

As a side (but important) note, kink is not necessarily sexual for me, and does not need to incorporate overtly sexual acts for me to be fulfilled. There are very few people I am interested in doing explicitly sexual things with, so being approached from that lens is often a turnoff.

For romantic things, I am primarily interested in men within 10 years of my age. For general play and kink, gender doesnt matter, and age matters less. Am curious about open relationships and poly. Not looking for anything online or long distance.

Outside of the kink world, I spend my time learning about all the things, singing, rock climbing, and strengthening my friendships through laughter, love, and all the hugs.