I have a strong fetish for bondage, cum control, tease and denial, and being used as a sex slave or sex for your pleasure.

From my past experiences, you are best matched with me if you genuinely enjoy that kind of power over a man, and crave it often. Other aspects of D/s are good as well, and open for discussion.

I live a publicly vanilla life, and don't consider myself in "the lifestyle". As such, I'm best matched with someone with similar views, who enjoys this power dynamic as something shared privately between us. While I no longer attend lifestyle events, I am open to doing so with you if that is something you enjoy.

As long as we each communicate honestly and avoid drama, I'm open to various relationship dynamics. Anything from ongoing casual, to a kinky kind of FWB, to a full blown outwardly vanilla relationship that includes regular power exchange privately.

I've been on this site before, and based on that experience I want to clarify that while a little humiliation or pain is fine, I am not a good match for you if you are focused on those. Also feminization is a limit for me, so if that is something you enjoy, we aren't a good match. I realize this dramatically limits my options. That is OK. I just need to find one good match. I hope that's you!

If you made it this far, and see potential, we should talk!

You'll find me to be respectful and chill. I have my shit together, with a good life. I'm a complete person, and am interested in you as a person. 

I'll share more photos privately if we begin talking.