I am recently widowed, and in the grieving process of finding myself in this new life that no one asked for. My Dom of twelve wonderful yet short years has recently passed away. They found me and gave me an actual chance at life when I had little to my name and came from absolutely nothing. They have taught me so much, and we had a bright and shining future together. A huge part of me died with them, and what's left is all that I've learned from them. I don't know how I will get through life without them, but I feel that they guide me from memory and heart. I miss you so much, Jason! I love you. I would do it all over again, even though my life is darker than its ever been. Thank you! For fun, I enjoy writing fiction, video games, anime, traveling, amusement parks, concerts, conventions, road trips, sightseeing, animals, baking, reading, learning new things and meeting new people. I own my own home, have two awesome cats, and live a relatively peaceful life. I have a lot on my plate these days, and so, I am not looking for anything besides good conversation at this time. Also, please don't refer to me as anything but my name when sending a message, which is Allison. Thank you. A switch exploring her dominant side to learn all that she can in the meantime, so when the time comes that I meet someone special I am able to build a satisfying Domme/sub relationship with them. I'm quite the little brat but I know how to contain myself most of the time, however, if you're also a brat, and deliciously sadistic, you might have a little trouble on your hands :) 

I am here to meet new people, make some friends, and if the cards are right, find a potential submissive. Of course though, I am pretty old school, so this individual and I would have to be friends before I'd consider them. Ideally, this person would be local to me, as I am not interested in an online D/s dynamic. Long distance may be considered, but only if we are an hour or so apart. I am in no hurry to rush into anything, and I'd prefer this person felt the same way - I want an organic, genuine connection that can stand the test of time.

This submissive and I could possibly live together. I am also open to the idea of sharing a life with this person and getting married. I want children.
Also, I have a poly heart; and while I am open to the idea of being in a monogamous relationship, the idea of a throuple or triad is also a possibility, if it was what we both wanted. However, I am not interested in exploring polyamory until we've established our own relationship. I also do not tolerate hierarchy in polyamorous arrangements, as I find that it usually ends up being an unethical practice.

*****As for being my Dom****
I am not focused on exploring that path, and if it ever happens, it should find me. I am just grateful to have gotten to enjoy a wonderful, healthy, sane and amazing D/s dynamic with one Dom in this lifetime so far, and if those happy days are behind me, so be it. 

However, if I were to have a second chapter with another Dom, the same deion above is more or less applies here as well - meaning, we need to go through a thorough vetting process. Thanks!