Collarspace

Vanilla me Im a single father with a love for all things geeky. My free time is usually spent playing board games or tabletop war games. I used to play magic, but havent touched it in a far bit. I currently have two jobs. I have a full time job with a company I love. I also run a miniature commission painting company in my off time. This is something that will eventually replace the full time job, but it will take time to gain the traffic I need to get there. It is something I am passionate about and well most certainly talk your ear off about it if given the chance.
Im in the classic rock stage of my music interests. It used to be metal, but I think as Ive gotten older, I started to appreciate older music more. Country is a big no. Its garbage. Sorry, not sorry.
As far as movies go, I love over the top stuff. More ridiculous shit happening than gratuitous gore. If its a satire of something, Im probably going to be interested.
I enjoy travelling, aquariums, museums, and antiques. Theres probably more but that can be saved for later.
Kinkster me Ive been in the lifestyle for over 15 years. I use quotes for a reason. Ive always strived for something more than vanilla sex, and it wasnt until I met my sons mother that I actually knew what BDSM was and realized it was a normal interest. Thats not 100 truwe but its that explanation or the real one where I learned it from watching a shitty 90s Dan Akroyd movie about a bdsm island. Props if you know the movie without googling it.
I dont have a set definition or real idea of what I am looking for. Id rather find a person with similar interests and build something unique to us both.
What am I looking for? Ideally I want a long term relationship with a foundation of Ds to build upon. My ultimate goal is to find my kink-mate and live happily ever after or some sappy thing like that.