4/4/2018 1:17:40 PM: Before I continue with the main parts of my profile, I need to add this on Collarspace spelling: A note on Collarspace's 'WYSIWYG' (what-you-see-is-what-you-garbled) editor for messages and profiles: This editor should be called 'delete-it-or'. My (still growing) list of deletions of character strings goes as follows: a) 'a-s-p-' is deleted from words like 'gr-a-s-p-' (becomes 'gr...' [indeed ...]), 'a-s-p-irin' becomes 'irin' etc.; b) 'f-o-r-m': 'in-f-o-r-m-ation' is reduced to '...ation', de-f-o-r-m-ity is de-f-o-r-m-ed to read 'deity' (quite subtle, ain't it? - Don't know if atheists like that); and 'platf-o-r-m' then reads 'plat' or uni-f-o-r-m reads 'uni'; c) 's-p-a-n' is deleted too, so 's-p-a-n-king' will render as '...king' (for those who are into queening?) and 'attention s-p-a-n' will leave no trace but 'attention' (yes ... you were saying?) ... and those Hi-s-p-a-n-ics from S-p-a-n-ish speaking countries are speaking -ish from the -ish lands where Hi-ics tend to dwell - Tolkien would be impressed, after all, it cost him far more effort to design new languages; d) 'f-i-n-i-t' as in 'de-f-i-n-i-t-ion' will then read 'de-ion' (and I thought I had missed a Greek loan-word the first time I encountered that one) ... (However, if you write de-ion without that hyphen in the first place, it will be 'corrected' to read: de-scrip-tion. Oh my.) I'm sure the list goes on ... until all correspondence, even that of the most erudite, will be reduced to Twitter f-o-r-m-at (phew, I caught that just before saving). But no, no, it does not stop there - sometimes Collarspace recycles some of these character strings to perfect the charade: 's-u-b-j-e-c-t' becomes 'sub-j-a-s-p-ect', 'p.r.o.j.e.c.t' becomes 'pro-j-a-s-p-ect' and should you have 'ex-p-e-c-t-a-tions' then consider to live with 'ex-a-s-p-e-c-tations' ... and so on. Ex-a-s-p-erating, sorry, exerating in CS style resp. diction. Now I sit back and wait till the World Scrabble Federation accepts these neoplasms, maybe then we can all have a BDSM scrabble tournament called 'the 50 nightshades of babble'. No, no, I am not a particularly funny character, what makes you think that? Reality is far funnier than any stuff I could make up. And be advised: all software in your Smartphones and self-driving cars is of course bug-free - it's never a bug, it's a feature. So, if I should have inadvertently used such a character combination in my current communication with you (or anywhere in my profile) and it is missing when you (try to) decipher my well-intentioned orthographic efforts, then the above is the reason, not excluding my own occasional glitch as an extra excuse.

2/23/2018 10:59:36 AM: Whom does this profile address? (Who is it for? Is this you?)First and foremost I would say, I am looking for slaves, but would consider all submissives too who feel they might have strong slave tendencies. To begin with and to set at rest some reservations you might have: both my pictures as well as my age are real. I won't post face pics for the simple reason that in some niche circles I am a kind of celebrity and might easily be recognised with many unintended consequences. I even need to be careful with my biographical excerpt (which you find below) lest someone who knows me better might count two and two together and decode it.I know it sounds boisterous, but I do not look my age, to many I look like 40 at most. My face and body have no wrinkles to speak of (and I did not opt for elective surgery like Berlusconi nor would I condone Botox either). This is just an abstract, more about me further down below.Back to more about you:You should be in this for the long haul. This is the reason why I have tentatively set the age preferences as between 18 and 40 for subs or slaves.The reason is this: if from here on out we would envisage a long-term relationship, and under an LTR I would understand something to last for decades, i.e. maybe thirty years or 'till death does us part', then most people would have a hard time to keep in synch with my slowed to almost reversed ageing process (which so far has almost come to a standstill - more on that later). So of necessity I need to choose from an age bracket who would in such a time frame not likely 'overtake' me with regard to their physiological age as compared to mine. Neither would I want to run a nursing home nor would I want to lose you due to developing health-related incompatibilities with the BDSM life-style.When I look at the age bracket of 18-40 and consider the average profiles at the lower and high ends, on the other hand, I feel I value maturity to a certain extent and this means I might predominantly search from 25 year-old upwards and for many candidates 35 years might be the threshold to keep up with my physical condition.However, let not this deter you to contact me, should you consider yourself either mature at an early age (I've met a few, very few though, 16-year-old women who were more mature than many men in their fifties; and I know of a German gymnast, who still competes regularly, and she is beyond ninety, while I know, most men in their twenties couldn't work the parallel bars, let alone compete).In the last analysis I, or we, will decide once we discuss per mail, chat or meet face-to-face, long before either commits to anything. Which brings me to the concept of a probation period:Whoever you are, however beautiful you may be, I will give us both always a probation period of 100 days. I won't fall for appearances only (although these can help …), as they may change over a period of thirty or more years, but to make such (a) relationship(s) work in an enduring fashion requires more than just an initial excitement and sheer physical attraction.And to find out where we both stand, I believe 100 days of 'courtship' should be sufficient, because, on the other hand, a never-ending probation is incompatible with lasting trust as well. Somewhere down the line you 'have to tie the knot', so to speak, or else let go.Now, I am well aware, that there is no binding irrevocable contract in BDSM slavery (not in the sense that it could be upheld in a court of law). You could pack your bags and be out the door at any minute, even on day 101. For me though, the difference is that after 100 days I am willing to commit to see this as a true long-term commitment from my side which e.g. would entail not letting some transient conflict call into question the whole relationship. Rather, such an event would call for a thorough one-on-one talk and 'couple therapy'. In my book, there is a marked difference here and hopefully during these first one hundred days I get to know you so well that I can expect the same mechanism of wanting to see things through in good times and bad will have come into force on your part as well.As for daily routines, household rules and regulations and by-laws, and how I would expect you to allow yourself then to be groomed and developed, also on the mental, spiritual and intellectual planes, see below in the respective chapter.Now, as regards compatibility: I would suggest you look at my interests in the respective section and review them to see whether they resonate with you and to what extent. If there is a gross mismatch and you still wanted to apply I would suggest you either haven't carefully selected and stated your interests in your profile or you consider yourself so malleable in light of what you expect to gain from my personality in other areas that you either did away with some of your incompatible cravings (postponing is no option, it will probably never come to pass or 'get better' - during that time of 'seeing it through' by putting yourself last you might well have found a choice of partners more ideally suited to you) or you actually now perceive them as less strong and are ready to change course to some extent. Your decision - however, a decision you will have to live with, so choose carefully.Likewise, if you read the whole profile and don't at least tentatively 'get wet', get horny or it doesn't resonate on a deeper primal level with you, then we may not be a good match either. Again, don't waste your time (or mine) if this might lead to heartbreak and hardship instead of affection, love, arousal and bliss for you. Many profiles here bear witness to D/s relationships gone sour, then bad and worse from there. This includes slaves who faithfully served a 'master' for years only to be kicked out at short notice and then finding themselves in a homeless shelter. I doubt if it is a good idea to, from that precarious position, solicit a new 'master' (immediately) to take one in, from the fry-pan into the fire. 'Woman forges her own destiny', the saying goes. Yes, yours, but don't make that ours.

2/23/2018 10:53:29 AM: A bit about me (biographical abstract)When I grew up, the world was neatly divided between East and West, communism and capitalism, the Korean war had just ended when I was born, and every so often we'd have drills to exercise for a nuclear contingency. Not all people in my home country were well-fed yet, while by now not many are not obese.From an early age, when my schoolmates would read novels, I would prefer science books (although I did read adventure stories from time to time too). I began to 'study' chemistry before I could even read or write. Which meant that by the time I got to university I was bored to death, but they wouldn't let you in above undergraduate level no matter what. You had to 'get the credits'.Well, this led to me taking on other subjects and from then on I was 'hooked'. I never stayed in one profession for longer than five to ten years, meaning that when I became proficient and even most time 'best in class' at something, I would then switch to a totally unrelated area of expertise, which led me through brushes with the legal profession, insurance consultant, I owned a building firm, even today there are a few people who still want to consult my expertise on concrete chemistry, be it for leaking garage roofs or public motorway bridges and hydro-electric dams suspected to collapse. The latest incarnation which I am about to say goodbye to was ERP consulting (if you don't know that term, either look it up or don't bother - and I deliberately have not posted explanatory links in this profile lest it might not get approved due to a suspicion of linkbaiting). I did warn some friends who would listen of the Dotcom bubble back in 1999/2000 and of the 2007 real estate/mortgage bubble, both of which I called in good time, though few would heed the advice (and we're right in the next bubble now as of this writing).I have six full professional qualifications 'under my belt', even for professions I never had time or an appetite to work in and I would have another dozen more if the dates of the exams were not only once per year and always when I would be unavailable due to the obligations of my Europe-wide travels on some consulting business or other.While I did have several relationships that could qualify as BDSM activities proper, I could never arrange any kind of long-term live-in course of action because when you work in one city this week, in another city next week and live from a suitcase, and you work long hours, at times not leaving the office because by the time you finished your day's work, you look at the clock and a new day has broken and you can just grab another coffee and stay where you are, then you cannot be a Master or Dom to a slave, let alone slaves in the plural.This isn't to say I didn't have long-term relationships too, but they were all of the vanilla type and the kids from these relationships are all grown. Only now am I truly free not only of outlasting commitments and the moral obligations that go with those, but also will scale down my work commitments soon (ah … hopefully), and settle down. I haven't finally decided where that will be, but Switzerland is a strong option and having worked there for quite a while I am entitled to stay there should I so choose. But not all bets are off yet, although it definitely won't be overseas (from a European perspective) but it will be in Western Europe including the UK or Ireland, I should think.'Why has he prepared this profile now if he hasn't even decided where to live?' you might wonder. Well, precisely and mainly for two reasons:Because as long as the silt is still in flux, it can yet decide where to settle and that could likewise be (a) (first) slave(s) country (or a Domme's according to the specifications herein), who already are settled down and who are wont to leave but might consider taking in their Dom/Master and/or partner. This is by far not the main thrust of the profile but for completeness' sake it is another option. And looking at it from the other side of the same coin, all those, who have been on Collarspace a little longer or had tried to find a suitable (let alone 'ideal') BDSM partner through other means, will agree, that this can be an excruciating process that takes months in most cases and sometimes years, if you make the wrong choices, get bruised and then have to recollect yourself and start all over again not having got any younger (but hopefully wiser). If I had bought an estate or whatever before deciding on at least a first partner in life who met the stipulations laid out in this profile, but she would live in another country (or in the same country, but further away) and for some personal reasons could not readily relocate, what stupid investment would that homestead then have been. And if you are even only superficially familiar with real estate markets, you know full well that selling a house after just having got the deeds in your name puts you back a least ten percent of the purchasing price (plus cost) just spent, even if you could sell it for the exact same price and find a buyer immediately. So, God forgive, it's the consultant in me that makes me think things through in all directions, and the higher the stakes, the more diligently.This maybe an unusual approach, you might say, however, as a consultant who earned his daily bread by helping boardrooms to find options they would not have otherwise considered, I believe this is a more than legitimate approach. Some of you might even have a business (or be heir to a business) that you could imagine might thrive even better with a seasoned consultant as a sidekick (or be revived if currently in trouble). Mind you: this doesn't take away one jot from the compatibility requirements alluded to earlier - we should be a good, even close to ideal, match to begin with, and not let ulterior economic calculus influence our affairs of the heart.To all of you for whom 'size matters': I won't discuss the other thing in public, except, let it be said, that if my pictures are not discernible as me being of the more virile type, then I put this down to lack of experience of the beholder. But as for my height, it's been truthfully stated in the profile. If you prefer the taller type, then well and good and good luck with your search. I'm not the 'long and lanky and bony' type and I never really felt it to be a problem. On the contrary, I was always happy to walk through doors and get into cars without hitting my head. And those schoolmates and later the fellow students who had to duck their heads while walking through normal-height doors, now, without exception, complain about back problems. Looking back over the years, all my female partners were either slightly taller or, with just one exception, at least taller than me when wearing high heels. Still, we both always had a good time while it lasted.

2/23/2018 10:50:21 AM: tbd

2/23/2018 10:46:48 AM: Who and what you should not be (activities not supported, fetishes not condoned) (start)Without taking away anything from any statement made heretofore and hereinafter, these are things you might want to consider and advice you might want to heed before you apply, or contact me:I probably won't do anal. The reason is that practically all the nerves hard-wired in our brains for sexual pleasure are in the clitoris and the vagina if you're female and in the glans and shaft of the penis for males.Oral is different in that there are moving parts (tongue, lips, gums, palate, cheeks) that can be skilfully applied in furthering arousal and the inside of our mouths as well as our lips again are among the most innervated parts of the body and made for sensual experiences (hence kissing became popular).In my book, these are multitudinous options and variations that we will never finish exploring. Since anal brings with it a considerable risk of infection through intestinal bacteria and fungi (q.v. vaginal mycosis and sometimes worse) I consider the risk of anal greater than the reward. I know, many, maybe even the majority of CS members may think otherwise, but, being in the majority, they should not have problems finding other adequate partners. Please consider this before applying.If something that I don't do or don't allow is high on your list, then better abstain than later be sorry. An unfulfilled craving can be outshone by overwhelming first excitement, but in the long run there is always an unfulfilled longing that finally gets the better of the 'craver'. Behind each and every extra-marital affair or adulterous behaviour there is a craving that has not been adequately addressed by their incumbent partner. This is the opposite of a mutually fulfilling LTR, don't you think?And may I warn you: tickling is, I believe, much underrated in the life-style. In my experience, in light of research of the subject of D/s and SM, and in my personal opinion, tickling is the only arduous BDSM activity that can be scaled infinitely, from the slightest tease, a barely noticeable breeze, through endorphin-releasing convulsive laughter, to true torture at the other extreme. So if you are not OK with that, again I suggest you would do yourself a favour if you moved on.Having cleared that out of the way, all other activities that you would be forced to submit yourself to, would probably be more 'mainstream' except for illegal activities like involving children or animals, toilet stuff, body mutilation like permanent marks, extreme dilation, etc.Physique, fitness, body modifications etc.If you are moderately overweight, this can be rectified and then stabilised successfully under my guidance. I will not hold that against you if you qualify in other areas.